Kodi mungakonde kukhala nokha (kapena pagulu laling'ono) kusiyana ndi gulu lalikulu? Kodi lingaliro lopereka chiwonetsero chachikulu limakupangitsani thukuta pang'ono? Zikumveka ngati ndinu introvert. Kotero m'malo mopita ku phwando la bwenzi lanu, phwando la kubadwa kwa bwenzi (lomwe-bvomerezani-simukufuna kupitako), dzipiringizeni pampando ndi limodzi la mabuku khumi odabwitsawa.
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Chophimba: Korona; Mbiri: Twenty20Chete ndi Susan Kaini
Introversion ili ndi mphindi pakali pano - koma kale zosangalatsa ndipo kudzisamalira kudakhala kodziwika bwino, Kaini amafufuza mbiri ya umunthu wake m'buku lake la 2012. Phunzirani momwe mungalekere kudzifanizira ndi anthu olankhula momasuka (omwe, pamwamba, angawonekere odzidalira) komanso momwe mungakhalire bwino mu chikhalidwe chomwe sichingakumvetseni bwino nthawi zonse.
Chophimba: Back Bay Books; Mbiri: Twenty20Kuti'd Iwe Zipita, Bernadette ndi Maria Semple
Chabwino, nthawi yoti mulowe mu buku lamadzimadzi: Bernadette Fox ndi mmisiri wokhazikika komanso mayi yemwe amasowa banja lisanachitike. Mwana wake wamkazi akamayesa kumupeza, amapanga chithunzi choseketsa ndi chokhudza mtima cha mkazi amene anthu samumvetsa komanso akunenedwa molakwika. (Kwenikweni, ndi chikumbutso kwa anthu odziwika kuti palibe cholakwika ndi kusagwirizana ndi lingaliro la anthu la zomwe zili zoyenera, zanzeru za umunthu.)
Chophimba: Farrar, Straus ndi Giroux; Mbiri: Twenty20Kuganiza, Mofulumira komanso Mochedwa ndi Daniel Kahneman
Mwakonzeka kupeza sayansi? Katswiri wodziwika bwino wa zamaganizo komanso wopambana Mphotho ya Nobel amathandizira kuthetsa kusiyana kwachilengedwe pakati pa momwe anthu oyambira ndi omwe amaganizira. Mwachidule, mwina ndinu oganiza mwadala komanso oganiza bwino kuposa bwenzi lanu lothamangitsidwa, yemwe ali wachangu komanso wozindikira. Koma nkhani yabwino: pali ubwino waukulu kwa onse awiri.
Chophimba: Gibbs Smith; Mbiri: Twenty20Walden: Moyo mu Woods ndi Henry David Thoreau
Ngati kukhala pawekha kukumveka ngati maloto, ndiye kuti ndinu munthu wamba (ndipo bukuli ndi lanu). Thoreau anamanga kanyumba m'nkhalango ndipo anasamukira kumeneko kwa zaka ziwiri, kenako analingalira za moyo wake wosalira zambiri kutali ndi phokoso lokhazikika la anthu. Zimakhala ngati zimatipangitsa kufuna kusamukira kunkhalango…kapena kumasula kamodzi pakanthawi.
Chophimba: Skyhorse Publishing; Mbiri: Twenty20The Irrensistible Introvert ndi Michaela Chung
Nachi chinsinsi chokhudza oyambitsa: Amakhala olimba mtima kuposa momwe amaganizira kuti ali. Mukuwerenga kopatsa mphamvu uku, Chung amachotsa nthano yoti ongolankhula okha ndi omwe angakhale achikoka, ndipo amapereka maupangiri kwa oyambira omwe akuyesera kuchita bwino m'dziko lomwe limakonda anthu opambana - koma musadandaule, simudzafunika kudumphira kutali ndi chitonthozo chanu. zoni.
Chophimba: Knopf; Mbiri: Twenty20Zamtchire ndi Cheryl Strayed
Simufunikanso kuti mukhale okhudzidwa kwambiri monga momwe Strayed adachitira m'mabuku ake a 2012-mudzagwirizanabe ndi ulendo wake wokwera Pacific Crest Trail. Amafunafuna kukhala payekha komanso chete ndikuyesera kugwirizanitsa, kubwezeretsanso ndikukhala munthu wabwinoko, wopindulitsa. Lembani manotsi.
Chophimba: Mpesa; Mbiri: Twenty20Osandisiya by Kazuo Ishiguro
Pafupifupi mabuku onse a Ishiguro ndi abwino kwa oyambitsa, koma tili ndi gawo la buku lake la 2005 lonena za anzake awiri, Ruth ndi Kathy, omwe anakulira ku England. Chomwe chimapangitsa kuti izi ziwerengedwe ndi chisankho cha Ishiguro kuti aike Kathy, yemwe ali wodziwika kwambiri mwa awiriwo, pa udindo wa mphamvu monga wolemba nkhani. Muubwenzi, wongopeka kapena ayi, theka losungika kwambiri nthawi zambiri limatsitsidwa kukhala bwenzi lapamtima, kotero ndizotsitsimula kuwona gal yemwe ali chete akumupeza.
Chophimba: Sterling; Mbiri: Twenty20Sherlock Holmes Wathunthu ndi Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
Pamakhalidwe ake onse odziwika bwino, Holmes ndi woyambira mopitilira. Ganizilani izi: Amafunika masiku kuti awonongeke ndi kukonzanso pambuyo pa mlandu, ndipo amayesa violin kwa maola okha. Classic introvert. Inu ndi wapolisi wapolisiyo ndithudi ndinu achibale.
Tsamba loyamba: Mabuku a Riverhead; Mbiri: Twenty20Moyo Wachidule Wodabwitsa wa Oscar Wao ndi Junot Diaz
Oscar de Leon (wotchedwa Oscar Wao) ndi mwana wamanyazi, wodekha waku Dominican wochokera ku New Jersey yemwe amakonda kwambiri nkhani zopeka za sayansi komanso zopeka ndipo mantha ake akulu ndikuti amwalira ali namwali. Palinso vuto lina fuku , temberero lomwe lasautsa banja la Oscar kwa mibadwomibadwo. Nkhaniyi ndi yoseketsa, yomvetsa chisoni komanso yosangalatsa—mukhala mukutsata Oscar patsamba loyamba.
Chikuto: Little, Brown ndi Company; Mbiri: Twenty20Ndakatulo Zonse za Emily Dickinson ndi Emily Dickinson
Dickinson wodziwika bwino wodzipatula adakhala nthawi yayitali yauchikulire ali yekha kunyumba kwawo. (Koma iye anachitadi, mofanana ndi oyambilira ambiri, kusunga mayanjano aakulu mwa kulemba makalata.) Ndakatulo zake zokongola zimalongosola malingaliro ake pa anthu onse, limodzinso ndi malingaliro ake ponena za kulimbana ndi dziko lakunja.
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