Kukana kumakhala kowawa, koma nkosapeweka. Panthawi ina m’moyo wa munthu, n’kutheka kuti munthu angakumane ndi zowawa zosapiririka za kusweka mtima. Koma zili bwino, zowawa zili bwino, mutha kuthana nazo. Ngakhale kuti mukumva zowawa pakali pano, dziwani kuti ululuwo udzatha. Ndipo posakhalitsa, mudzabwereranso ku kuwala kwadzuwa kosangalatsa kwa munthu amene munali kale ‘munthu amene’yo’ asanaswe mtima wanu. Pakalipano, pali njira 10 zomwe mungapirire ululu wa chikondi chosayenerera.
Dzipatseni nthawi yolira
Monga cheesy ndi romcom-monga momwe zimamvekera, muyenera kudzilola kuti mukhale ndi chisoni; paja kukanidwa kumawawa! Kafukufuku wina anapeza kuti kupweteka kwa m'maganizo kumayambitsa gawo limodzi la ubongo monga momwe ululu wakuthupi umachitira. N’chifukwa chake ‘mtima wosweka’ umapwetekadi. Musadzivutitse nokha chifukwa chokonda wina, dzipatseni nthawi yokhumudwa ndi chisoni; osangothamanga kwambiri.
Muzilankhula nokha mwa munthu wachitatu
Ayi, sitiri achinyengo. Chinyengo ichi chimagwira ntchito chifukwa kulankhula wekha mwa munthu wachitatu kumakuthandizani kuti muzitha kuwongolera malingaliro anu bwino. Njira imeneyi imakulolani kuti muwunike momwe zinthu zilili potsatira zolinga. Kotero, eya, kambiranani za inu nokha.
Pewani chinyengo
Mwina mwakhala mukuganiza (ndikuyembekeza) kuti tsiku lina, zinthu zidzayenda bwino pakati pa inu nonse. Chiyembekezo nthawi zambiri chimakhala chosangalatsa, koma osati muzochitika izi. Kukhala m’chikhulupiriro chakuti tsiku lina wokondeka wanu adzakukondani monga momwe mumamkondera kumangokulitsa mkhalidwewo. Pewani chinyengo ichi pamtengo uliwonse ndipo mukupita patsogolo.
Pangani malo
Sitikunena kuti muyenera kudula maubwenzi onse ndi iye ndikusiya kucheza naye kotheratu, koma muyenera kuyesa kupanga mpata pakati pa iye ndi inu. Ngati mudakali naye paubwenzi, yesani kumuimbira foni kapena kumutumizira mameseji pafupipafupi; muloleni akuyitaneni inu kamodzi kanthawi. Panthawi yomwe mtima wanu ukuchira, danga limathandizira ntchitoyi.
Pezani nthawi yochita zosangalatsa
M'malo molota modabwitsa momwe iye aliri, zisokoneze nokha ndi chizolowezi chomwe chimakusangalatsani. Mindlessdaydreaming ndi kuwononga mtheradi wa nthawi yanu ndipo inu m'malo njira mphamvu zanu kuchita chinachake chopindulitsa. Sankhani chinthu chomwe chimakupangitsani chidwi chanu kapena zomwe mumafuna nthawi zonse.
Dzisamalireni nokha
Kudzikonda kumachepetsedwa kwambiri! Ndipo mukakhala pansi ndi kunja ndikumva chidani chachikulu pa chikondi ndi chirichonse chokhudzana ndi icho, imani pomwepo. Chikondi ndi chinthu chokongola komanso kudzikonda ndikokongola kwambiri. Sungani nthawi yokumana ndi salon yanu ndikupita ku gawo lonse lachisangalalo. Kapena ingotengani mchere womwe mumakonda komanso mafuta ofunikira ndikubweretsa spa m'nyumba mwanu. Dziwani kuti ndinu ofunika!
Pangani mndandanda wa zabwino ndi zoyipa
Ngakhale kuti zikumveka zopusa, zimathandizadi! Pangani mndandanda wa zabwino ndi zoyipa za kukhala osakwatiwa. Zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi maganizo. Mbali yoyipayo mwina yayitali kuposa yazabwino koma zili bwino. Pamapeto pake mudzayamba kuwona mbali yowala ya zinthu. Ndipo kumbukirani kuyang'ana mbali ya ochita bwino, kukhala ndi chiyembekezo nthawi zonse kumathandiza.
Pitani pa tsiku
Zitha kumveka ngati zokakamizika kapena zopanda phindu, koma ndizabwinoko kuposa kukhala nokha kunyumba ndikungoyendayenda. Sikuyeneranso kukhala tsiku lovuta kwambiri, lisungeni mwachisawawa. Funsani mnzanu kapena mnzanu kuti amwe khofi kapena yesani malo odyera atsopano. Ngati mukufuna, tsitsani pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi ndikufunsa imodzi mwama 'machesi' anu pa tsiku la khofi!
Nenani ayi kwa ma romcom
Chonde musagonjere ku chisangalalo chowonera ma romcom ndikudya ayisikilimu mutatha kusweka mtima. Zidzangokupangitsani kuti mugwedezeke mosafunikira ndikugogomezera chinthu chimodzi chomwe simungakhale nacho - chikondi. M'malo mwake yang'anani kwambiri makanema ndi mabuku omwe si achikondi, sankhani mtundu wina, monga masewero, masewero kapena masewero. Zidzakuthandizani kuthana ndi ululu bwino.
Musafune kutseka
Pomaliza, ingovomerezani momwe zinthu zilili ndipo musathamangire kupeza kutseka kuti zinthu ziwoneke ngati 'zabwino'. Kuyang'ana kutsekedwa pamene kwenikweni palibe, sikungathandize mlandu wanu. Ingosiyani, vomerezani kugonjetsedwa, kokani masokosi anu ndikukumbatira zam'tsogolo. Kumbukirani kuti m’nyanja muli nsomba zambiri.
