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Mkazi aliyense amapita gawo lina m'moyo wake akafunsidwa mafunso ngati- 'Kodi mukwatirana liti?,' 'Bwanji osapeza mwamuna ndi kukwatiwa?', 'Moyo wonse ndikukwatira, kukhala ndi ana komanso kukhala nawo mosangalala. '
Osati ochokera pagulu, koma nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi abale awo, oyandikana nawo, komanso anzawo omwe amawaika azimayiwo m'mavuto. Sadziwa kuti izi zingayambitse kupsinjika ndi kukhumudwa mwa mayiyonso.
Nthawi zina, chifukwa chakuponderezedwa, amayi samatha kuyendetsa bwino momwe akumvera ndipo pamapeto pake amadzimva kuti ali mumkhalidwe winawake osatha kupanga chisankho. Pali azimayi ambiri omwe amadzipereka okha kukakamizidwa ndi mabanja awo ndikunyalanyaza ntchito zawo chifukwa cha achibale awo.
Momwemonso, nkhani ya Vani (dzina lasinthidwa) kuchokera ku Patna siyosiyana. Atamaliza digiri yake yaukadaulo, monga atsikana ambiri, Vani adakakamizidwa kwambiri ndi makolo ake ndi abale kuti akwatire. Poyamba, sanawamvere ndipo adati akufuna azikonza mapulogalamu. Anati, 'Ntchito yabwino ndiyomwe ndikufuna tsopano. Ndiroleni ine ndikhale chomwe ndimafuna kukhala. '
Koma, ndani amasamala za malingaliro azimayi, sichoncho? Ngakhale atalowa nawo pakampani yopanga mapulogalamu akuyembekeza kuti banja lake litha kumukakamiza kuti akwatire. Zinthu zinaipiraipira ndipo patapita miyezi itatu, adayenera kusiya ntchito kuti akwatire.
Ndizachidziwikire kuti akanakhala kuti sanakakamizike kukwatiwa, akadayang'ana pa ntchito yake ndikupanga zina zake.
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Momwemonso, pankhani ina, mayi wotchedwa Niti (dzina lasinthidwa) wochokera ku Koderma, India, adakwatirana atakwanitsa zaka 21. Monga amayi ambiri omwe amalota zaubwenzi wabwino ndi mnzake, iyenso anali wokondwa ndi banja lake ndipo inali nthawi yosangalala kwa iye. Adalota za nthawi zokongola atatumiza ukwati wake, koma, zinthu sizinayende monga momwe anakonzera ndipo patatha chaka chimodzi, anali wokakamizidwa kukhala ndi ana.
Anauzidwa ndi amayi ake ndi apongozi ake, 'Kukhala mayi kungakumalize kukhala mkazi.' Niti sanakhulupirire konse popeza kunali molawirira kwambiri kuti iye akhale mayi ndikulera mwana.
Atakhala zaka ziwiri ali m'banja, amangonyalanyaza zomwe abale ake ndi abale ake akunena. Sanatsutse kukhala mayi, zonse zomwe amafuna kuti akhale okonzekera m'maganizo ndi zachuma kulandira mwana. Chomwe amafuna chinali kugwira ntchito, china chake amamukonda ndi mtima wake wonse.
Panali nthawi yomwe kunali kofunikira kuti akazi azikwatiwa atakwanitsa zaka. Koma, ndizovuta kuti anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro amakolo akulu amvetsetse kuti azimayi amakhalanso ndi zofunikira zina. Ali ndi zokonda zawo komanso kusankha ntchito ndipo amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito 'nthawi yanga'. Pakadali pano tonse tazindikira kuti kudzisamalira sikudzikonda. Kukwatirana kapena kukhala ndi ana kumatha kusiyanasiyana pakati pa mkazi ndi mkazi ndipo gulu silingapatse azimayiwa nthawi yochitira izi.
Posachedwa, kampeni yotchedwa 'Timelines' idapangidwa ndi SK-II, kampani yosamalira khungu, kuti ifufuze ziyembekezo za moyo wa azimayi anayi ochokera kumayiko anayi osiyanasiyana, okhala ndi malingaliro osiyana. Nthawi ya akazi awa imasiyana ndi malingaliro a agogo awo aakazi, amayi awo ndi abwenzi apamtima. Mafunsowo adatengedwa ndi wolemba nkhani komanso wolemba waku America Katie Couric.
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Tisanayambe kufunsa mafunso ndikukambirana nawo azimayi anayiwa,
Katie adati, 'Chimachitika ndi chiyani maloto atasemphana ndi ziyembekezo? Tonsefe timayenera kuchita zazikulu: digiri, ukwati, banja. '
Wosewera wopambana mphotho ku China, Chun Xia anali m'modzi mwa azimayi anayi omwe Katie Couric anafunsidwa. Chun, yemwe amadziwika pofotokoza malingaliro ake ndikukambirana za kupatsa mphamvu atsikana achi China. Anakumbukira momwe nthawi zina, amafunsidwa ndi anthu zokhudzana ndiukwati. Nthawi zonse ndimafunsidwa kuti, 'Kodi simukufuna kukwatira? Sukufuna kuyambitsa banja ndikukhala ndi ana momwe ungakwaniritsire msinkhu wako? ' Koma chowonadi sindikufuna pakadali pano. Sindinakonzekere, 'adatero. Amakhulupirira kuti chisangalalo chimatha kubwera kuchokera kumagulu osiyanasiyana komanso sichimangolekezera m'banja.
Pomwe amalankhula ndi Katie, mayi wina, Maina (25) adati, momwe anthu aku Japan amatchulira azimayi ngati 'katundu wosagulitsidwa', ngati sangakwatirane azaka zapakati pa 25-30. Amayi ake adatinso, 'Ndikufunadi kuti apeze mwamuna woyenera ndikukwatirana, kuti awoneke ngati zinthu zofunika kukwatira.'
Atafunsidwa pambuyo pake, Katie adathandizira azimayiwa ndi mabanja awo kuti amvetsetse nthawi yawo. Nthawi yake imayimira njira yomwe mayi aliyense adawonera moyo wake mosiyana ndi zomwe mabanja awo ndi abale amaganiza ndikulingalira.
Kwa mtsikana aliyense, nthawi ziwiri zidapangidwa. Chimodzi chimayimira zoyembekezera. Zina, zolinga zawo, 'Katie adalongosola. 'Nthawi zambiri pamakhala kusagwirizana pakati pa maloto ndi ziyembekezo. Koma kodi kuona kusiyana kumeneku kungatithandize kumvetsa bwino zinthu? '
Atawona ndikumvetsetsa kusiyanasiyana kwa ziyembekezo ndi zokhumba zawo mamembala am'banja limodzi ndi amayi adatha kukambirana bwino za banja komanso tsogolo lawo.
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Palibe cholakwika ndi kuda nkhawa ndi ana anu aakazi kapena kuwakwatira ali ndi zaka makolo akuwona kuti ndi 'zolondola', koma, munthu ayenera kuganizira zofuna ndi ziyembekezo za ana awo, makamaka ana aakazi.