Ngakhale m'badwo wa digito wapangitsa moyo kukhala wosavuta kwa ife, kupanga dziko lapansi kukhala malo olumikizidwa kukhalamo; mbali yaikulu ndi yakuti anthu tsopano sakugwirizana kwambiri ndi msinkhu wamaganizo. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri timatumizirana mameseji m'malo molankhula, kuyimba pavidiyo m'malo mokumana maso ndi maso ndikutumiza zokometsera m'malo mofotokozera zakukhosi kwathu kwa oyandikana nawo komanso okondedwa athu.
Kodi ubale uliwonse umafunika chiyani?
Kulankhulana koyenera, kufotokozera, kugawana, kudalira, chikondi, ulemu, mgwirizano, chimwemwe, kumvetsetsa, kupereka malo, kusunga chinsinsi, kuvomereza, maganizo osaweruza, ndi zina zambiri, anatero Prasanna Rabade, psychotherapist ndi mlangizi wa Disha Psychological Counseling. Pakatikati. Akufotokozanso, ngati izi zikukwaniritsidwa ndi sing'anga iliyonse, ndiye kuti palibe vuto muubwenzi. Chifukwa chake zilibe kanthu ngati mwalumikizidwa ndi digito kapena kudzera munjira zachikhalidwe. Mlangizi ndi psychotherapist Parul Khona, kumbali ina, amakhulupirira kuti digitization yapangitsa maubale kukhala ovuta kwambiri kuthana nawo. Mafoni, Instagram, Facebook ndi malo ena ochezera a pa Intaneti apangitsa maubwenzi kukhala opsinjika kwambiri kuposa momwe tsiku limodzi kapena awiri pa sabata kapena m'mbuyomu, akanawapanga iwo.
Kodi kugwiritsa ntchito digito kwapangitsa mabwenzi kukhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri?
'Mauthenga okhazikika pama media azachuma ndi odabwitsa kwambiri, akumva a Khona. Anthu amangoyang'ana ngati theka lawo lina lili pa intaneti, kodi mnzakeyo anali pa intaneti kwanthawi yayitali bwanji kapena adawerenga uthengawo koma osayankha? 'Kufunika kokhazikika kumeneku kukudziwa zomwe mnzakeyo akuchita kungapangitse kuti pakhale mgwirizano,' akutero.Koma kumbali ina, Rabade amakhulupirira kuti teknoloji ndi yabwino chifukwa imathandizira kulankhulana kwachangu komanso kosavuta, kufotokozera, komanso kulola kugwirizanitsa kwambiri, kukulolani kuti muzikumbukira kukumbukira, ndikulumikizana ndi ena kuposa kale. Digitization ndi chithandizo kwa iwo omwe ali paubwenzi wautali. Komabe, masiku apita kale pamene anthu ankalankhulana polemberana makalata. Ngakhale maanja odzipereka sangathe kuthokoza kupita patsogolo kwaukadaulo kokwanira kuwabweretsa pafupi ngakhale patali, ukadaulo wachotsa chithumwa komanso ubale womwe kalata yolembedwa pamanja ikadalankhulana bwino.
Kodi zabwino ndi zoyipa za maubwenzi muzaka za digito ndi ziti?
Khona ikufotokoza kuti maanja amatha kulumikizana bwino chifukwa cha digito. Facebook imatidziwitsa zomwe munthu akuganiza, kuchita, kapena kumvetsera, ndipo mwachiwonekere amapanga 'kulumikizana'. M'malo mwake, pali maubwenzi ena omwe amayamba pa intaneti, ndipo posakhalitsa amakhala osalumikizana ndi intaneti kuti akhale maubwenzi enieni! Monga za blogger yazakudya Megha Chhatbar's. Adakumana ndi mwamuna wake, Bhavesh, patsamba lodziwika bwino la Orkut, zaka khumi zapitazo, ndipo wakhala m'banja losangalala kuyambira pamenepo. Anakumana koyamba pabwalo la zokambirana zomwe zimakonda ku Orkut. Nditakambirana pabwaloli, ndinazindikira kuti timayang'ana zinthu mofanana, choncho ndinamutumizira bwenzi. Yankho lake linali lakuti, ‘Ndimakuona monga mkazi wanga woyembekezera tero ugaŵire adilesi yako ya imelo ndipo tidzakambitsirana pa makalata.’ Ndinadabwa! Patatha masiku angapo a imelo, tinayamba kulankhula pafoni. M’kati mwa mlungu umodzi wokha, tinali titakumana pamasom’pamaso. Tinagwirizana kwambiri moti anabwera ku Jaipur kudzakambirana ndi banja langa za ukwati. Atangovomera, mkati mwa masiku 10, banja langa linayendera malo ake ku Pune ndipo tinachita roka (chibwenzi). Madeti anamalizidwa ndipo tinakwatirana mkati mwa miyezi inayi!Chifukwa chake, maubwenzi azaka za digito ali ngati maubwenzi akale, koma okwatirana amafunika kukumbukira zinthu zingapo. Mwachitsanzo, ubwenzi ukhoza kugawidwa pamene anthu awiri akuyang'ana wina ndi mzake osati pa zipangizo zawo, Khona amakhulupirira. Rabade akuwonetsa kuti kulumikizana ndikofunikira. Mvetserani wina ndi mnzake ndikuuzana zakukhosi kwanu popanda kukayika kulikonse.
Kupeza chikondi m'dziko lenileni
Ndikuyenda mwachangu kwaukadaulo kwazaka makumi angapo zapitazi, sizodabwitsa kuti zochitika zonse zapa chibwenzi zasintha. Zibwenzi zapaintaneti zapeza malo ake ku India. Chifukwa chake, pitirirani ndikupeza yomwe mukumva nayo, chifukwa cha mapulogalamu onsewa omwe muli nawo.Tinder: Ndi pulogalamu yodziwika bwino ya zibwenzi padziko lonse lapansi, Tinder yalowa ku India posachedwa. Ma aligorivimu ake mosakayika ndi malingaliro ake apadera ogulitsa ndipo amatha kukulumikizani ndi munthu wamalingaliro ngati pasanathe mphindi imodzi. Tinder ili ndi zinthu zina zodabwitsa monga abwenzi apamtima komanso njira yofanana kwambiri. Komanso, mutha kusankha kuti mbiri yanu ipezeke ndi anthu ena ndikulumikizana ndi omwe mwawakonda kale. Kupatula apo, pulogalamuyi imakupatsani mwayi wowongolera zotsatira zanu potengera zaka kapena mtunda.
Wokwatiwa: Zovuta za m'badwo wachichepere wodutsa njira yachikhalidwe yopezera bwenzi lamoyo zidayambitsa lingaliro loyambitsa Marrily. Ndi ntchito yopangira maukwati omwe amayang'ana kwambiri akatswiri okonda ntchito omwe angafune kupyola njira zonse zaukwati zomwe zalembedwa patsamba laukwati. Ukwati umagwiritsa ntchito zinthu zingapo zotsimikizira zanzeru monga kulembetsa kwa Facebook ndikutsimikizira kudzera pa ma selfies, kuwonetsetsa mbiri yeniyeni. Yayambitsa lingaliro la Marrily Socials komwe zochitika monga mafilimu, kulawa vinyo, usiku wamasewera, ndi zina zotero zimapangidwira osankhidwa omwe amasankhidwa kumene amapeza mwayi wolumikizana ndikupeza ngati amakondana.
Chidwi: Ndi pulogalamu yachibwenzi yaku India, yomwe idapangidwa kuti izikumbukira anthu omwe mwina sangakhale odziwa zambiri. Pulogalamuyi ili ndi mawonekedwe osavuta ogwiritsira ntchito omwe amapangitsa kuti zinthu zikhale zosavuta kwa wogwiritsa ntchito, komanso zimatsimikizira kuti amayi ndi omwe amasankha. Ngati abambo akufuna kulowa nawo mderalo akuyenera kuvoteredwa ndi gulu la amayi. Kudzazidwa kwathunthu kwa mbiri pa pulogalamuyi kukuthandizani kuti mufanane mwachangu komanso moyenera. Chochititsa chidwi cha kutsimikizika kwamawu ndi makanema ndichinthu chomwe chimasiyanitsa pulogalamuyi.
True Madly: Izi app wakwanitsa kulenga yoweyula ndithu monga Indian mnzake wa Tinder. Zimathandiza munthu kupeza machesi malinga ndi zokonda ndi zokonda, kupitirira malire a msinkhu ndi mtunda. Mbali yapadera ya pulogalamuyi ndikuti sikuti imangotsimikizira chitetezo cha zithunzi zanu komanso imalimbikitsa wogwiritsa ntchito kufunsa anzawo kuti awavomereze kuti apeze 'chikhulupiriro' chabwino. Izi pamapeto pake zimatsogolera wogwiritsa ntchito pazokambirana zambiri ndi machesi. Pulogalamuyi imalimbikitsanso ogwiritsa ntchito kusewera masewera ena ndi machesi awo monga Styletastic ndi Foodie Funda zomwe zimawathandiza kuti adziwane bwino.
Uwu: Ndi pulogalamu ya zibwenzi komanso kupanga machesi yomwe imangoyang'ana akatswiri ophunzira okha. Pulogalamuyi ndiyosangalatsa kwa ogwiritsa ntchito chifukwa cha zinthu monga Mawu Oyamba, Kusaka kwa Tag, Kutumiza Mafunso ndi mauthenga achindunji. Ma aligorivimu a pulogalamuyi ndi yakuti amathandiza wogwiritsa ntchito kupeza machesi malinga ndi ma tag omwe ali ndi chidwi komanso amalola wogwiritsa ntchito kuyang'ana machesi omwe angakhale nawo pamaziko a tag imodzi pamutu womwe umakukondani kwambiri.
Zolemba ndi Ruchi Shewade
