Kwa ambiri aife, ukwati ndi chinthu chomwe tinali nacho lingaliro - losamveka kapena lotsimikizika - kuyambira nthawi yayitali. Ndithu, ndi nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri yosintha moyo. Mukapeza SO yanu, mumakhala okondwa ndipo mwakonzeka kupita ku D-Day mwachangu. Koma, khalani kamphindi musanathamangire ukwati. Moyo wanu usintha kuchoka pa kukhala ‘zonse za ine’ kukhala ‘zokhuza ife’. 'Ine' akhoza kutayika mosavuta mu zonsezi, ndipo ndi zomwe simukuzifuna. Muyenera kudzipatsa ine-nthawi yomwe ingakuthandizeni kukhala pamalo abwino, m'maganizo, m'maganizo, pazachuma komanso mwakuthupi pamapeto pake. Zithandizanso ubale wanu waukwati, ndipo zitha kukhala chinyengo cha banja lokhalitsa, lopambana.
Muyenera kukhala ndi zokumana nazo zanu musanasamuke kuti mukhale ndi zokumana nazo zatsopano ndi mwamuna wanu. Nawu mndandanda wa zinthu zoti muchite nokha musanalowe m’banja.
imodzi. Zoyenera kuchita - Khalani nokha
awiri. Zoyenera kuchita - Kukhala wodziyimira pawokha pazachuma
3. Zoyenera kuchita - Menyani nkhondo yabwino
Zinayi. Zoyenera kuchita - Yendani nokha
5. Zoyenera kuchita - Sankhani zomwe mumakonda
6. Zoyenera kuchita - Pangani dongosolo lanu lothandizira
7. Zoyenera kuchita - Yang'anani ndi mantha anu akulu
8. Zoyenera kuchita - Dzidziweni nokha
Zoyenera kuchita - Khalani nokha
M’mabanja a ku India, mtsikanayo amachoka kukakhala ndi makolo ake n’kufika pokhala ndi mwamuna wake nthaŵi zambiri. Izi zitha kupangitsa kuti mayiyo azidalira ena - pazachuma, m'malingaliro, kapena m'malingaliro. Mayi aliyense, asanakwatirane, ayenera kukhala yekha - yekha, kapena ndi anthu omwe si a m'banjamo. Kukhala wekha kumakuphunzitsani zinthu zambiri. Tanvi Deshpande, wamkulu wa PR yemwe wangokwatirana kumene, akuti, Kukhala wekha kumathandiza kuti munthu akule kwambiri. Ndinganene kuti mkazi aliyense (komanso amuna) ayenera kukhala paokha panthawi ina ya moyo, ngakhale zitakhala kwa nthawi ndithu. Kugula zakudya zanu, kulipira ngongole, kusamalira nyumba, zonsezi zimapangitsa kuti mumvetsetse ntchito yovuta yomwe imapita pomanga moyo. Mumakhala odziimira pazachuma komanso m'maganizo; kupanga bajeti ya mwezi ndi kulipira ngongole zanu zonse kungakupatseni lingaliro la kukwaniritsa. Kugwiritsa ntchito Loweruka ndi Lamlungu pang'ono ndi usiku wapakati pa sabata kokha kumakupatsani mphamvu. Katswiri wamkulu wazamalonda yemwe angotsala pang'ono kukwatiwa Sneha Gurjar akuvomereza izi, Nditachita ndekha kwa zaka pafupifupi 10, ndikupangira! Kukhala ndekha , kunja kwa chikwa cha makolo anu, kumakupangitsani kukhala wodziimira payekha ndi kukupatsani chidziŵitso chowonjezereka ku dziko lenileni. Kukhala nokha sikutheka nthawi zina. Shivangi Shah, mlangizi wa PR yemwe wagwidwa posachedwapa, amadziwitsa, Kukhala nokha kumakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chidaliro chodziyimira pawokha, ndikuchita ntchito zanu popanda kuthandizidwa, ndi zina zotero, koma munthu atha kuzipeza pokhala ndi banja ndikuchitapo kanthu mwachangu. kunyumbanso. Woyang'anira zamalonda ndi kulumikizana Neha Bangale yemwe akwatiwa chaka chino akuti, Kukhala payekha kumathandiza mayi kumvetsetsa momwe angayendetsere moyo (ntchito, maphunziro, kunyumba) popanda kuthandizidwa ndi aliyense. Zimamuthandiza kudziwa bwino mmene angakhalire ndi moyo m’tsogolo. Zimamupatsanso kumveka bwino pa zomwe iye alidi, ndi zomwe angachite kapena angachite kapena sangachite. Mwachitsanzo, ndinazindikira kuti sindingathe kutsuka mbale ngakhale nditakhala ndekha. Chifukwa chake, ndikudziwa kuti ndiyenera kukhala ndi mnzanga yemwe ali bwino pakuwotcha mbale kapena kulemba antchito antchito.
Zoyenera kuchita - Kukhala wodziyimira pawokha pazachuma
Monga kukhala ndi inu nokha, muyenera kukhala ndi chidziwitso chabwino pazachuma chathu. Izi zidzakuthandizani kwambiri kuti mukhale okonzeka kulowa m’banja. Gurjar nayenso akuti, Kudziimira pazachuma ndizofunikira kwambiri. Ndikuwona ukwati ngati mgwirizano wofanana, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kukhala okhoza komanso okonzeka kuchita zonse, ntchito ndi banja. Yemwe amachita kwenikweni zomwe zilibe ntchito. Kaya mukufuna kugwira ntchito kapena ayi pambuyo paukwati, muyenera kudziwa zambiri zantchito ukwati usanachitike. Sizidzangokupangitsani kuganizira zinthu mwanjira ina komanso kukupatsani ndalama nokha, ndikupangitsani kukhala wodziimira pazachuma. Ngakhale simukupeza zambiri monga momwe mukufunira pakali pano, zidzakupangitsani kudzizindikira nokha kuti mutha kuyimilira nokha osadalira ena ndalama. Ngakhale mutakwatiwa ndi mwamuna amene amakupatsani chakudya chokwanira, mulibe chitetezo chokwanira, Shah akuti, Pazifukwa zina, ngati muyenera kudzipezera nokha, kodi mungatani? Sindikuganiza kuti mkazi aliyense sayenera kukhala wokonda ntchito kapena kuyang'ana kwambiri ntchito, koma ndi bwino kukhala ndi chitetezo komanso chidaliro kuti ngati pakufunika ukhoza kukhala wekha osalola chilichonse chotsutsana ndi iwe- ulemu. Deshpande akumva, Ngati akazi akufuna kufanana m'njira iliyonse, ndiye kuti ayenera kukhala odziyimira pawokha pazachuma komanso kukhala ndi chidziwitso chokhudza kulipira misonkho, mabizinesi ndi zina.
Zoyenera kuchita - Menyani nkhondo yabwino
Pamene zinthu zonse ndi hunky-dory, kudzakhala kuyenda kosalala mu ubale uliwonse. Koma pamene tchipisi tachepa, ndipo pali vuto lina m’paradaiso, m’pamene mumapeza mmene munthu alili kwenikweni ndi kuchitapo kanthu pamikhalidwe. Bangale akuti, Nkhondo ndizofunikira kukhala nazo. Mumadziwa malingaliro a wina ndi mzake, mzimu wawo womenyana (wachilungamo kapena wauve). Momwe amachitira bwino/moyipa kusamvana ndi zokhumudwitsa. Palibe anthu aŵiri amene angagwirizane pa kanthu kakang’ono kalikonse. Padzakhala kusagwirizana kwapakatikati, kusamvana ndi kusiyana maganizo , ndipo ndizo! Koma m'mene mikhalidwe yoteroyo imachitikira ndiyo mfundo yotsutsana pano. Pamene kumenyana, munthu amatulutsa mbali yoipitsitsa ya iwo eni, Shah amakhulupirira, Ngati mbali iyi yake ndi chinthu chomwe mungathe kuthana nacho; ndiye mukudziwa kuti zikhala bwino. Aliyense ali ndi kulolera kwa makhalidwe osiyanasiyana, ena akhoza kulekerera mkwiyo, ena akhoza kulekerera chiwawa (monga kuswa zinthu); choncho ndi bwino kudziwa zomwe mnzanuyo amachita akakwiya komanso ngati mungathe kupirira khalidwe limenelo mwa iye.
Ndipo chifukwa china cholimbana ndi kupanga pambuyo pake. Kulondola? Ndipo mukudziwa kuti mutha kuthana ndi mavutowo ndikuthana nawo limodzi. Ngakhale kumenyana sikuli nkhani yaikulu, monga kudziwa ngati mungathe kuthetsa vutoli moyenera. Gurjar akuti, sindikumbukira kuti ndinayambanapo ndi bwenzi langa. Timasemphana maganizo nthaŵi ndi nthaŵi, koma nthaŵi zonse takhala okhoza kupeza yankho mwamtendere. Zolemba za Deshpande, Kuposa ndewu, ndikukhulupirira kuti banja liyenera kukumana ndi zovuta muubwenzi wawo. Pokhapokha m’pamene adzadziŵa mmene munthu winayo amachitira akamapanikizika ndi kugonjetsa vutolo.
Zoyenera kuchita - Yendani nokha
Pambuyo paukwati mudzayenda ndi mwamuna wanu, koma mudzakhala mukupanga zosankha malinga ndi zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda. Musanayambe ukwati wanu, mutha kusankha ndikusankha malo, choti muchite kumeneko, ndi zina zotero, ndikuchita zonse zomwe mumafuna kuchita kapena zomwe mumalakalaka kuchita popanda kunyengerera. Ndi bwino kudzikonda nthawi zina. Zomwe mudzapeza pamaulendo oterowo zidzakhala zosiyana ndi zomwe mumachita pambuyo paukwati. Mukhozanso kuyenda ndi anzanu, zomwe zidzakupatsaninso mtundu wina wa zochitika. Gurjar akufotokozera, Kuyenda, kaya nokha, ndi abwenzi kapena okondedwa kumakulitsa malingaliro anu, kumakupangitsani kukhala omasuka komanso kudziwa anthu omwe akuzungulirani ndikupanga kukumbukira moyo wanu wonse! Kaya ndi ukwati usanachitike kapena pambuyo pake zilibe kanthu. Koma ambiri, poyamba ndi bwino! Shah amavomereza, Munthu akamayenda yekha kapena ndi abwenzi, amapeza dziko lapansi ndi zomwe amakonda komanso zomwe amakonda. Akudzipatsa nthawi yosangalala komanso kukumbukira moyo wawo wonse. Tchuthi musanayambe kulowa m'banja lidzakupatsani nthawi yoti mudzifufuze komanso kuti musamachite bwino. Bangale amakhulupirira kuti kukhala ndi zako zokumana nazo zapaulendo musanalowe m'banja mudzalemeretsa tchuthi chanu mukawatenga ndi mnzanu. Osachepetsa kuyenda kwanu ndi anzanu kuti musalowe m'banja, Deshpande akuti, Kuyenda ndi anzanu n’kofunika osati ukwati utangotha, komanso utatha. Mumadziwa zambiri za anzanu mukamayenda. Komanso, mgwirizano ndi zokumana nazo zomwe mungagawane patchuthi ndichinthu chomwe mudzachikonda mpaka kalekale.
Zoyenera kuchita - Sankhani zomwe mumakonda
Ngati mulibe kale, sankhani chokonda kwa inu nokha. Izi zidzakupatsani nthawi yomwe mukufunikira kwambiri kuti musakhale ndi nthawi ya tsiku ndi tsiku. Zidzakuthandizani kuti mutenge maganizo anu pazovuta zilizonse kuchokera kuntchito kapena banja. Zidzakuthandizaninso mutatha ukwati kuti mukhale mkazi wabwino, chifukwa zidzakupatsani mwayi woti muzitha kufotokoza zakukhosi kwanu ndi kuthetsa mikangano ina kapena yonse ya moyo wanu. Pitirizani kuchita zomwe mumakonda komanso kusunga umunthu wanu, Gurjar akuti, Ukwati suyenera kutanthauza kusiya chilichonse chomwe mumakonda komanso kuchita. Deshpande akuvomereza kuti, Ngakhale kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kukhalapo kuti azikondana ndi kuthandizana, ayenera kupitirizabe ndi zofuna zawo kuti asadalire wina ndi mnzake pa chilichonse.
Zoyenera kuchita - Pangani dongosolo lanu lothandizira
Monga banja, mutha kukhala ndi anzanu omwe angakuthandizeni pamavuto. Koma ngati mungafunike wina kuti akhale pakona panu kwathunthu osayesa kukhala bwenzi nonse awiri. Anzanu omwe adzakhala njira yanu yothandizira nthawi zabwino ndi zoipa. Mukakhala okwatirana, mutha kupeza nthawi yanu kuti mukhale ndi SO, ndi anzanu wamba. Koma musaiwale anzanu omwe. Kukumana pafupipafupi, kapena kulankhula pafoni. Kapena mungathe kukonzekera maulendo apakati pa theka la chaka kapena pachaka pamodzi. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kukhala ndi abwenzi anuanu, Gurjar akumva, Zedi, mwina simungawone abwenzi anu nthawi zambiri mutatha ukwati, koma ndi gawo lakukula.
Shah akufotokoza bwino, ndili pafupi kwambiri ndi mwamuna wanga, ndipo ndife mabwenzi apamtima pamaso pa zibwenzi. Ndimakambirana naye chinsinsi chilichonse, koma ndikufunikabe anzanga, kuti ndisagawane zinsinsi koma nthawi zina muyenera kusintha malingaliro anu, muyenera kuyang'ana nkhope zanu zomwe mumakonda kwambiri ndikulankhula za zinthu zopusa ndikuseka mapapu anu ndi ubale uliwonse. moyo wanu uli ndi malo ake ndi mtengo wake, mwamuna sangakhale likulu la moyo wanu. Ngakhale kuti iye ndi ubale wofunikira kwambiri womwe muyenera kuusunga, koma nthawi ndi nthawi muyenera kudzipatulira pang'ono ndikukhala ndi abwenzi omwe akhalapo ngakhale mwamuna wanu asanakhalepo. Ubale umodzi sungathe kulamulira ena. Ndipo abwenzi nthawi zina amakuthandizani kuti muwone kupyola pa moyo wanu wamba. Kupuma pang’ono kumeneko kumathandiza kuti ukwati wanu ukhale wolimba komanso wathanzi. A Bangale anenanso kuti, Kukhala ndi abwenzi anuanu ndikofunikira monga kukhala ndi makolo anu, abale anu, zida zamagetsi, magalimoto. Ndi gawo la chizindikiritso cha mkazi ndi kudziyimira pawokha. Kukhala ndi maubwenzi obala zipatso osapangidwa kudzera mwa mnyamata nthawi zambiri kumakhala kolimba paokha. Ali ndi malo ndi kufunikira kwawokha. Zimathandizanso kukhala ndi anzanu kuti achite zinthu zopanda pake za mnzanu, Deshpande akutero moseka.
Zoyenera kuchita - Yang'anani ndi mantha anu akulu
Chifukwa chiyani mukufunsa? Nthawi zambiri, timadziletsa ndikudziteteza, kuti tipewe kuoneka opusa, kuchita manyazi, kupwetekedwa mtima, ndi/kapena kukumana ndi kukanidwa kapena kulephera kotheka. Mantha atha kukhala chilichonse - chachikulu kapena chaching'ono. Kuchita izi kudzakuthandizani kuvomereza mantha anu, kukumana nawo, ndi kuwathetsa. Chifukwa chiyani musanayambe ukwati wanu? Ngati mutha kuthana ndi mantha anu akulu, ndiye kuti kuchita china chilichonse kudzawoneka kosavuta ndipo mutha kukumana ndi zovuta zilizonse zomwe mungakumane nazo, mndandanda wazinthu zomwe muyenera kuchita musanalowe m'banja, pitilizani.
Zoyenera kuchita - Dzidziweni nokha
Pachiyambi cha zonsezi, muyenera kumvetsetsa nokha - zomwe mumakonda komanso zomwe simukuzikonda, zomwe mumakhulupirira, ndi zina zotero. Nthawi zina, sitivomereza ngakhale zomwe tikufuna pamoyo ndikutengera anthu otizungulira. Kudzimvetsetsa kudzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa zomwe mukufuna pamoyo wanu komanso ubale wanu ndi SO wanu. Shah amakhulupirira, Musanakwatirane, muyenera kudzidziwa nokha ndi dzikondeni nokha usanakonde munthu wina aliyense. Chifukwa, anthu akhoza kukusiyani, kapena kusuntha, koma munthu yekhayo amene adzakhala ndi inu kwamuyaya ndi inu nokha. Kudzikonda kungakupangitseni kukhala munthu wosangalala ndiyeno anthu ozungulira inu amakonda kukukondani kwambiri!
