Carl Jung ayenera kuti adakulitsa mawuwa kulowetsedwa -zomwe zimasonyeza munthu amene amapeza mphamvu kuchokera ku kulingalira ndi kutaya mphamvu pamisonkhano yamagulu-koma kwa zaka zambiri, lingaliroli lasokoneza pang'ono. Chimodzi mwamalingaliro olakwika odziwika bwino okhudza anthu oyambilira ndikuti amakhala osungulumwa omwe safuna kulankhula ndi aliyense. Pepala lachinyengo: Owonetsa nthawi zambiri amakonda kukhala okha kapena m'magulu ang'onoang'ono, amaganiza-zambiri-asanalankhule, ndipo chifukwa chokhala chete sizikutanthauza kuti chinachake chalakwika. (Koma chenjezo, izi sizingagwire ntchito kwa zonse introverts. Monga extroverts, introverts amabwera mumitundu yonse, kukula kwake ndi milingo ya chidwi pa kucheza.) Ndipotu, extroverts (ndi ambiverts ) angaphunzire zambiri kuchokera ku mawu oyambilira openyerera, odziwonetsera okha. Chitsanzo: Maphunziro asanu awa.
1. Kumvetsera Kwambiri Kuposa Zimene Mumalankhula
Anthu ambiri okonda kucheza ndi anthu amacheza mosalekeza. Mukudziwa zomwe simungathe kuchita mukamalankhula nthawi zonse? Mvetserani bwino kwambiri. Komano, anthu amene amangoyamba kumene kulankhula, amamvetsera kwambiri kuposa mmene amalankhulira. Kwa iwo omwe ali pafupi nawo, oyambitsa ndi anthu okhulupirika ndi odalirika; Mnzawo amene angathe kusunga chinsinsi komanso kusunga lonjezo, nthawi zambiri amawapanga kukhala omasuka m'bwalo lawo. Ngati ndinu munthu wolankhula momasuka amene anayikapo phazi lanu m’kamwa mwanu potulutsa chinachake chimene simukuyenera kukhala nacho, kukhoza kwa introvert kumvetsera ndi chinachake choti muzitsanzira. Komanso, kulemekeza luso limeneli kumakuphunzitsaninso kuganiza musanalankhule. Nawa maupangiri omvera bwino kuchokera kwa mtolankhani Kate Murphy , wolemba Simukumvetsera: Zomwe Mukusowa ndi Chifukwa Chake Zili Zofunika .
2. Kukhala Katswiri Wowonera
Nenani kuti muli paphwando. Mukucheza ndi aliyense yemwe mumamuwona mukamawona bwenzi lanu lakutsogolo likuyenda pa bar. Monga extrovert, mutha kuganiza, Ah mulungu wanga, ndizomvetsa chisoni, alibe wina woti alankhule naye. Choyamba, introverts akhoza kulankhula ndi ena, nthawi zina amasankha kusatero. Nanga akupanga chiyani atayima okha? Nthawi zambiri amaziwona. Maluso owonetsetsa a introvert ndi achiwiri kwa ena, kutanthauza kuti sapeza zambiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala oyamba kuzindikira china chake.
3. Kukhala Omasuka Kuthera Nthawi Yekha
Kwa anthu ambiri okonda kulankhula, lingaliro la kuthera tsiku limodzi—kapena maola angapo—liri lozunzika. Koma nachi chinthu: Ikhoza kubwera nthawi yoti iwe kukhala kukhala ndekha kwa kanthawi. Tiyerekeze kuti mukuwulukira kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito ndipo muli mumzinda wachilendo. Ndege yanu idzayimitsidwa, kotero mutha kukhala nokha usiku wonse. Ngati simukumva bwino kukhala nokha, mutha kungokhala m'chipinda chanu cha hotelo. Ngati muli bwino ndikuwuluka nokha pang'ono, uwu ukhoza kukhala mwayi wofufuza malo atsopano ndikusangalala ndi kampani yanu. Chifukwa amakhala omasuka kukhala okha, oyambitsa nawonso nthawi zambiri amakhala odziyimira pawokha komanso odzidalira, osasowa kampani ya wina aliyense kuti amve kukwaniritsidwa (koma kuyamikira kampani yomwe ili yoyenera).
4. Kudziwa Kunena Kuti ‘Ayi’
Otsogolera amadziwa kuti ndi bwino kuika patsogolo nthawi yanu komanso kuchita zinthu mwanzeru pokana pempho lanu. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pakudzisamalira ndikudziwa malire anu ndi kuwalemekeza. Ngati ndinu munthu wamba yemwe amangokhalira kunena kuti inde, sikuti ntchito yanu ingavutike komanso mutha kukwiyira anthu omwe akupempha thandizo lanu. Kudziteteza ndikofunikira. Malinga ndi pepala lofalitsidwa mu Journal of Consumer Research , kunena kuti ayi ku chilichonse kuyambira zododometsa za tsiku ndi tsiku kupita ku mapulani a pambuyo pa ntchito kungakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa zolinga mofulumira ndikudzipatsa nokha malo ndi nthawi yochira yomwe mukufunikira. Komabe, zingakhale zovuta kukana wina—makamaka ngati muli ndi zikhoterero zokondweretsa anthu. Nawa maupangiri asanu okana, chifukwa ndizabwinobwino komanso ndikofunikira - kutero nthawi zina.
5. Kukhala Wogwirizana ndi Zomwe Mukumva
Chifukwa chakuti otsogolera amayamikira kwambiri nthawi yawo yokha, nthawi zambiri amakhala odziwa bwino kwambiri. Ma introverts amathera nthawi yochuluka ndi malingaliro awoawo, zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala odziwa bwino komanso odziwa zomwe akufuna komanso zosowa zawo. Nthawi zina, ma extroverts amakhala opondaponda mpaka chitsulo mwakuti amaiwala kudzifufuza okha. Ngati ndinu omasuka, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu nokha (ngakhale itakhala yochepa) kuti muyang'ane mkati ndikuwonetsetsa kuti zosowa zanu zikukwaniritsidwa ndipo muli pamalo abwino.
ZOKHUDZANA : Osati Introvert kapena Extrovert? Mutha Kukhala Ambivert
