Bambo amafuna kudziwa ngati mayina awo amene anatchula ana awo aakazi aŵiri, wazaka 8 ndi 5, alidi achipongwe.
Abambo adapempha thandizo kwa Reddit Kodi ndine A****** msonkhano. Ananenanso kuti kutchula ana ake aakazi monga Pollyanna ndi Prima donna akuyenera kukhala okondedwa. Komabe, mawu onsewa amaonedwa ngati onyoza akazi.
Pollyanna akufotokoza za mayi wina yemwe sakhulupirira kuti amadzivulaza yekha. Kugwiritsa ntchito mawuwa m'makalasi ndikoletsedwa ndi American Federation of Teachers chifukwa chokhala wokonda kugonana. Pakadali pano, BBC News idatcha prima donna, mkazi wankhanza, mawu onyoza amuna akadali kuchedwa kuntchito .
Mwana wanga wamkazi wamkulu ali ndi umunthu wa mwana mu kanema wa Khrisimasi yemwe amapeza banki wankhanza kuti apulumutse nyumba ya ana amasiye, iye analemba . Kuwala kwadzuwa, utawaleza, positivity nthawi zonse. Pamene anali wamng'ono, adadutsa gawo la Disney la mpesa, ndipo ankakonda kwambiri 'Pollyanna.' Amadzinamizira kuti ndi munthu wodziwika bwino, ndipo dzina lotchulidwira linakhalabe.
Kenako anafotokoza mmene mwana wake wazaka 5 anamupezera dzina lomutchulira.
Ndi mwana wamphamvu kwambiri, wosagwedezeka yemwe ndidakumana nayepo ndipo ali ndi chidwi pamasewera, iye analemba . Ndimakonda izi za iye! Ankakondanso kuchita zinthu zochititsa chidwi kwambiri. Panthaŵi ina ya kupsa mtima kumeneku, mkazi wanga anamutcha kuti ‘Prima donna’ ndipo dzina lotchulidwira linamamatira.
Koma bamboyo anayamba kukayikira pamene mayi ake anamuimbira foni n’kumuuza kuti sakugwirizana nazo.
Anati angachititse ana anga kukhala ogawanika ndiponso kuti ndimachita zinthu zoipa za umunthu wawo. Sindikuganiza kuti ndi oyipa! iye analemba . Zoonadi, ine ndi mkazi wake timangoganiza kuti ndi mayina okongola ndipo atsikana sanasonyezepo kukhumudwa nawo. Mwinanso amatchedwanso mayina awo enieni 80 peresenti ya nthawiyo. Tsopano ndikudabwa.
Ndemanga ya Reddit inali yofatsa ndi abambo omwe anali ndi zolinga zabwino, koma chigamulo chili mu: abambo akulakwitsa apa.
Muyenera kuwona momwe kutchulira dzina la mwana wanu kukhala chipongwe chenicheni kumamuchotsera ulemu wake pazikhomo zingapo. Amayi amanditcha 'drama queen' moyo wanga wonse, wosuta m'modzi analemba . Zinapitilira kudzera m'banja langa komanso chifukwa zimatengera malingaliro okhudzika kwambiri, osaganiza bwino komanso okwiya, palibe ananditenga mozama.
Mayina omwe mudawapatsa iwo ndi zilembo, osati mayina awo. Ndipo mudawapangira zosangalatsa zanu, osati chifukwa ana amawakonda, munthu m'modzi anatero .
Mukuwona izi ngati chinthu chokongola komanso chosalakwa ndipo ndikuwona chifukwa chake. Komabe, mayina awiriwa ali ndi matanthauzidwe ena oyipa kwambiri, wina analemba.
Ngati mudasangalala ndi nkhaniyi, onani bambo uyu akuwonetsa kugawikana kwapagulu mu kanema wotsegula maso.
