Pamene tikukonzekera kukondwerera Tsiku la Amayi pa Meyi 9 (upangiri, zibwenzi ndi ana), amayi a Mu Kudziwa adagawana nthawi yomwe adayamba kumva ngati mayi.
Kaya ndi pamene adapeza kuti ali kukhala ndi mwana , nthaŵi yoyamba imene anaona nkhope ya mwana wawo, kapena pamene anali okha ndi khanda lawo, mayi aliyense ali ndi nkhani yakeyake yoti anene.
Pambuyo podutsa Chithandizo cha IVF kwa nthawi yayitali, zidakhala zodabwitsa kudziwa kuti mazira athu atakula kukhala miluza, akutero Nikki, mkulu wa zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana ku In The Know.
Kwa a Jeanine, director of transactions a ITK, zenizeni za umayi zidadziwika pambuyo paulendo wa amayi ake omwe.
Ndinali ndi mwayi kwambiri kuti mayi anga adatha kukhala ndi ine milungu iwiri mwana wanga atabadwa . Anandithandiza kwambiri, koma m’kupita kwa nthaŵi amayi anafunikira kuchoka, akutero Jeanine, yemwe ali ndi mwana wamkazi wazaka 12 zakubadwa. Ndithudi masiku angapo oyambirirawo amayi anga atachoka anali ngati, ‘Ino ndi mphindi. Ndizowona. Ndiwe mayi tsopano.
Kwa Pam, yemwe mkazi wake anali mayi woyembekezera kwa mwana wawo wamkazi, kugwirizana kunathandiza kwambiri kuti nayenso adzimve ngati mayi.
Ndine mayi wosabereka kwa mwana wathu wa miyezi 10. Sizinadziwike kuti ndinali amayi ake, nanenso, mpaka titafika kunyumba, akutero. Ndipo ndinamuuza mkazi wanga kuti chonde pitani mukagone. Pasanathe ngakhale ola limodzi, mwana wathu wayamba kukuwa, ndipo ndinafunika kumusamalira . Kotero ine ndinamupatsa iye botolo, ndipo iye anakhala pansi, ndipo pamene ine ndinayambadi kugwirizana ndi kuzindikira kuti inenso ndinali mayi ake.
Tsopano Pam, woyang'anira chitukuko cha omvera a ITK, ndiye mayi woyembekezera kwa mwana wawo wachiwiri, yemwe akuyembekezeka kumapeto kwa chaka chino.
Kwa ine, monga mayi wa 14 wazaka zakubadwa komanso wazaka 8, inali pamene anamwino adayika wamkulu wanga pachifuwa changa nditangobadwa. Kwa munthu wamng'ono chonchi, anali ndi chiyambukiro chachikulu kwambiri pa ine.
Kukondwerera Tsiku la Amayi
Ndipo monga momwe mayi aliyense angachitire ndi amayi ake oyamba mosiyana, kukondwerera Tsiku la Amayi kumakhudzanso zochitika zaumwini ndi miyambo yapadera.
Ine ndi mkazi wanga tinakhazikitsa mwambo wa Tsiku la Amayi. Tinapenta mpendadzuwa, womwe ndi wofunika kwambiri kwa ine ndi mkazi wanga, akutero Nikki, yemwe ali ndi mwana wa miyezi 11. Choncho ndikuyembekezera kujambula chinachake chatsopano chaka chilichonse ndikuwona khoma lathu lajambula likukula.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri kuyambira ndili mwana zomwe zakhala zikupitirizidwa ndi mwana wanga wamkazi ndi inenso ndikuti timakonda mphatso zopangira kunyumba, akuwonjezera Jeanine. Ngakhale panopo, ndimasangalala kwambiri mayi anga akapitirizabe kuchita zinthu zimenezi.
Pokhala wochokera ku Dominican Republic, Pam amakondwerera Tsiku la Amayi tsiku losiyana ndi mkazi wake, wochokera ku Puerto Rico.
Ku Puerto Rico, amakondwerera Tsiku la Amayi tsiku lomwelo lomwe United States imachita, kotero tidzakondwerera Tsiku la Amayi kwa iye tsiku limenelo, akutero. Ndiyeno tidzakondwerera Tsiku la Amayi anga tikadzachita ku Dominican Republic, lomwe ndi Lamlungu lomaliza la Meyi.
Kwa amayi onse kunja uko, kaya mphindi yanu yoyamba, komabe kapena mukakondwerera, tikukufunirani Tsiku Losangalala la Amayi!
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