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Moni, Gulu Chat,
Kudzipatula kusanachitike, m'modzi mwa anzanga apamtima adachita chibwenzi ndipo adandipempha kuti ndikhale wokwatiwa. Sanafune kukhala ndi chinkhoswe kwa nthawi yayitali, motero adakonzekera mwachangu kukhala ndi chinkhoswe mu Ogasiti uno komanso ukwati patangotha miyezi ingapo mu Novembala. Ngakhale kuti poyamba ndinkasangalala ndi zonse zokhudza kukonzekera ukwati, tsopano lingaliro lopita kuphwando limandichititsa mantha. Maiko akuyambanso kutseguka, koma sindikumvabe otetezeka kupita kuphwando ndi anthu 60 kuphatikiza, makamaka pamene ena abwera kuchokera kumayiko ena ndi mayiko.
Monga wokwatiwa, ndimamva kukhala wodabwitsa kuuza mnzanga kuti sindikufuna kupita kuphwando lake. Komabe, thanzi langa liyenera kubwera poyamba, ndipo ndimangodziona kuti ndine wosatetezeka kukhala pakati pa anthu ambiri pakali pano. Kodi ndikupenga? Kodi ndingamufotokozere bwanji mnzanga kuti mwina sindingapite kuphwando la chinkhoswe chake ndikudziwa kuti kumatanthauza chiyani kwa iye? Chomaliza chomwe ndikufuna ndikuti ubwenzi wathu uwonongeke chifukwa cha izi.
- Wowona mtima, Wamkwatibwi Wamantha
Wokondedwa TB,
Lisa Azcona , yemwe adalandira foni yowopsa kuchokera kwa bwenzi lake lapamtima lomwe linali ndi vuto lomweli mwezi uno, akuti - Chinkhoswe (ndi ukwati!) Ndi chinthu chokongola komanso chosangalatsa kukondwerera. Komabe, mavuto azaumoyo padziko lonse lapansi asintha chomwe chingakhale lingaliro loti inde-pamtima kukhala lingaliro lomwe limaphatikizapo kulingalira mozama ndi kulingalira. Ndikhulupirireni pamene ndikunena izi: Simuli nokha ndipo malingaliro anu ndi ovomerezeka. Ndikukuyamikani poganizira za thanzi lanu. Pochita izi, simumangoganizira za thanzi la okondedwa anu, komanso za ena omwe akuzungulirani.
Ngakhale kuti kukambirana kungawonekere (palibe amene amakonda kuwona bestie wawo akukhumudwa), ndinganene kuti mutsegule njira zoyankhulirana pakati panu awiri mwamsanga. Muzokambirana zanu, ndikofunikira kuti mulankhule kuti kukayikira kwanu sikuli chiwonetsero cha zomwe akutanthauza kwa inu.
Ngati pamapeto pake mwasankha kusapezekapo, ndikuganiza kuti zingakhale bwino kuwonetsa wokondedwa wanu kuti, ngakhale simunakhalepo, mukumuganizira patsiku lapaderali. Ganizirani kugwira ntchito ya DIY yomwe ikuwonetsa ubwenzi wanu wodabwitsa - womwe ukhoza kuwonetsedwa paphwando kapena kulandiridwa m'mawa. Mwinanso mutha kupanga a zodabwitsa mawonekedwe enieni paphwando pawindo lalikulu kapena pulojekiti. Ngati pali chilichonse chomwe tonse taphunzira panthawi yodabwitsayi, ndikuti zikondwerero zenizeni zimatha kukhala zosaiŵalika komanso zapadera.
Morgan Greenwald, yemwe (mwachiyembekezo) adzakwatira mu 2021, akuti - Monga mkwatibwi ndi wokwatiwa m'maukwati angapo omwe akubwera (ngakhale aimitsidwa), ndikumvetsetsa momwe mukuyenera kukhumudwitsidwa pompano. Mukufuna kuti tsiku lapadera la bwenzi lanu likhale lapadera, koma nthawi yomweyo, simukufuna kupereka chitetezo chanu kuti likhale lapadera.
Ngakhale mayiko ena ayamba kuchepetsa ziletso ndikulola kusonkhana panja, zili ndi inu ngati mumasuka kupita ku zochitika zomwe zanenedwa - makamaka pakakhala anthu 60 kuphatikiza. Ngati mukudziwa kuti malingaliro anu sasintha ndipo simudzamasuka kupita kuphwando lachinkhoswe la bwenzi lanu, ndingakhale wowona mtima kwa iye posachedwa kuti akonze zoyenerera.
Ngati uyu ndi bwenzi lenileni, adzamvetsa kumene mukuchokera ndi kukuthandizani kuika thanzi lanu ndi chitetezo choyamba. Zinthu zikayamba kuyambiranso (mwachiyembekezo posachedwa - zala), mutha kukonzekera chikondwerero china chaching'ono kwa iye ndi operekeza akwati ena - mwina brunch kapena paki yopachikika!
AmiLin McClure , yemwe wakhala mkwatibwi nthawi ina, akuti - Ndikanamva chimodzimodzi! Ndikuganiza kuti mwina si inu nokha amene muli paphwando laukwati amene akuganiza zotsika chifukwa cha mliriwu. Langizo langa lalikulu ndi ili: musadikire nthawi yayitali kuti muuze mnzanu ngati simukupita nawo. Zikuwoneka ngati mwapanga malingaliro anu kuti thanzi lanu limabwera poyamba, zomwe ndi zanzeru kumbali yanu.
Mwinamwake mungathe ngakhale kutsimikizira mkwatibwi kuchedwetsatu phwandolo kotero kuti mabwenzi ake ndi achibale onse angathe kupezekapo popanda kuika thanzi lawo pachiswe. Ndikuganiza kuti ndibwino kunena kuti mnzanuyo sangafune kuti aliyense wa okondedwa ake adwale. Chofunika kwambiri, komabe, ndikuganiza kuti zingakhale zothandiza kufotokoza zakukhosi kwanu kuti adziwe komwe mukuchokera, ndipo mukamatero, zimakhala bwino.
Ngati ali kwathunthu ayi kuti tikonzenso phwandolo, ndikupangira kuti ndikonzenso chikondwerero china chachinkhoswe kwa inu nonse awiri. Mwanjira iyi, mutha kulemekezabe nthawi yapaderayi m'moyo wake - popanda anthu 60 kuphatikiza ndi inu. Monga bwenzi lapamtima, ndikutsimikiza kuti amvetsetsa.
Dillon Thompson, yemwe sanayitanidwepo kuphwando lililonse ndi anthu 60-kuphatikiza, akuti - Monga mwamuna wosakwatiwa, wapafupi kwambiri amene ndakhala ndikukhala mkwatibwi ndi pamene ndinayang'ananso Ukwati Crashers sabata yatha. Izi zati, sindikuganiza kuti vutoli likugwirizana ndi maukwati. Munanena nokha: Thanzi lanu liyenera kubwera poyamba. Ndizowona kaya tikukamba za phwando lachinkhoswe, kusamba kwa ana kapena mwambo womaliza maphunziro.
Ngati mukudandaula za chitetezo chanu, ndiye kuti muyenera kukhala oona mtima. Uzani bwenzi lanu zoona tsopano, ndipo fotokozani mosapita m’mbali zimene mungasangalale nazo. Ngati mukuda nkhawa ndi momwe amachitira, mwina fikani kwa okwatirana ena ndikuwona komwe mitu yawo ili. Pamapeto pake, muyenera kukumana ndi bwenzi lanu - ndipo ngati amasamala kuti akuikeni muukwati wake, ayenera kumvetsetsa malingaliro anu.
Alex Lasker, yemwe anali abwenzi atatu kuchedwetsa maukwati chaka chino, akuti - Ndidasankhidwa kukhala mkwatibwi (nthawi yanga yoyamba!) mu umodzi mwaukwati wa mnzanga wapamtima chilimwechi mpaka adayimitsa mwambowu mpaka 2021, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti malingaliro ake pankhaniyi akupatsani chidziwitso pano.
Mukuona, sanafune kuti zonse zomwe zitsogolere ku ukwati wake zikhale zowopsa komanso zowopsa kwa abwenzi ndi abale ake - phwando lachinkhoswe, mlungu wa bachelorette, kusamba kwa bridal, ndi zina zambiri. kupeŵa kuika alendo m'mikhalidwe yanu yeniyeni. Zinali zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kuchotsa zochitika zonsezo pa kalendala yanga, koma zinalinso mpumulo kudziwa kuti mnzanga wapamtima amaganizira za okondedwa ake pamene adapanga chimodzi mwazosankha zovuta kwambiri zomwe adayenera kupanga.
Mwina ndikukhala wopanda Nancy pano, koma ndikuganiza kuti ndi kudzikonda kuchita phwando kapena ukwati pompano - ndipo sindikuganiza kuti uyenera kudziimba mlandu ngakhale pang'ono chifukwa chakuchepa kwa kupezekapo. Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti, mukuwoneka kale kuti ndinu otsimikiza kuti musapite. Zomwe muyenera kuchita tsopano ndikuuza mkwatibwi mwachisomo, kuwonetsetsa kuti ichi sichinthu chomwe inu kufuna kuchita, ndi chinachake inu kukhala kuchita kuti mudziteteze. Ngati sakumvetsetsa kapena kuvomereza kuyimba kwanu (komwe, kunena chilungamo, ndikukhulupirira kuti atero), ndiye nthawi yofunikira kwambiri kuti muwunikenso ubwenzi wanu.
TL; DR - Aaa amwali, supenga ngakhale pang'ono, dalira m'matumbo pankhaniyi. 60-kuphatikiza anthu ndi a zambiri pa nthawi yomweyi, makamaka pamene tikumasuka kubwerera m'misonkhano yapa-munthu (ndi kusamala koyenera, ndithudi.) Zikatero, nthawi ndi bwenzi lanu pakali pano - koma sipadzakhalanso nthawi ina. Uzani mkwatibwi posachedwa: Ing’oleni ngati bandeji yoti simudzapezekapo. Zoonadi, zidzaluma, koma zidzatsimikizira kuti mumayika malingaliro ambiri mu chisankho chofunikira ichi ndipo simunangoganiza kuti musapite pamwambo sabata imodzi phwando lisanafike.
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