Ana aang’ono amanena zinthu zoipa kwambiri—ndipo palibe zili zowona. Amakana kuti anamenya mlongo wawo pamene inu munayima mapazi awiri kuchitira umboni Amayi enieni apakhomo -makoka tsitsi. Kapena amaumirira kuti safunikira, mulimonse, kugwiritsa ntchito potty, mukamawona ma leggings awo a lavenda akunyowa mpaka utoto wofiirira (Hei, INU mukuyesera kuchoka ku Barbie Dream House). Ziwalo zofanana ndizosangalatsa komanso zopatsa misala, khalidweli nthawi zambiri limasiya amayi ali pachiwopsezo. Apa, akatswiri amapereka script momwe angayankhire.
Zogwirizana: Zochita 7 Zosavuta (komanso Zolimbikitsa Ubongo) za Ana Achichepere
Makumi 201. Khalani wonyada
Zimathandiza kudziwa kuti ana onse amanama, ena atangokwanitsa zaka ziwiri. Wapakati wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi amanenedwa kuti amanama ola lililonse . Kutambasulira chowonadi chonsechi, malinga ndi sayansi, ndi chizindikiro cha kulenga ndi luntha . Kotero nthawi ina pamene mwana wanu adzakuuzani kuti sanapange chisokonezo chomwe mukumupempha kuti ayeretse (pamene, monga, kwenikweni palibe wina ali kunyumba), musachite misala - khalani odzikuza. Per The Zatsopano York Times : N’chifukwa chiyani ana ena amayamba kunama ali aang’ono kuposa ena? N’chiyani chimawasiyanitsa ndi anzawo oona mtima? Yankho lalifupi ndiloti iwo ndi ochenjera… Achinyamata abodza amakhala odziwa bwino za chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso osinthika, malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwapa wa ana asukulu.
2. Ganizirani zowalimbikitsa
Kukula, ana ang'onoang'ono nthawi zambiri amavutika kusiyanitsa zongopeka ndi zenizeni. Kuganiza zamatsenga n'kogwirizana ndi msinkhu wake. Ena amanama kuti akonzekere kuchita ntchito yovuta, analemba motero mphunzitsi wophunzitsa ana kulera ana Janet Lansbury . Kotero ngati mwana wanu atakuuzani kuti anakwera pamwamba pa masewera olimbitsa thupi m'nkhalango pamene mukudziwa bwino kuti sanayambe alimbe mtima kuti akwere chigawo chachiwiri, pewani chikhumbo chofuna kumuwongola. Angakhale akuwona kupambana kwamtsogolo - njira yomwe tingayamikire ngati munthu wamkulu adachita. Alemba a Lansbury: Malingaliro awa angathandize [ana] kukhala olimba mtima kuti achite izi nthawi ina.
Makumi 203. Gwiritsani ntchito chilimbikitso chabwino
Muzochitika zina zachitetezo, kupeza chowonadi ndikofunikira (Anatero mwana wanu kwenikweni kumeza Lego, kapena akungoyerekeza?). M’malo molanga ana kaamba ka kunama, auzeni, ine sindidzakwiya ngati munama; Ndikungoyesera kumvetsetsa chowonadi. Ndidzakunyadirani kwambiri ngati mungandiuze zomwe zinachitikadi.
4. Limbikitsani chifundo chanu
Mwana akanama chifukwa choopa zomwe tingachite, Lansbury amalangiza kuti Pangani chitetezo ndi mayankho osatsutsika monga, 'Ndakumva mukunena kuti simunamenye mchimwene wanu. Zikuoneka kuti anamenyedwa. Chonde ndidziwitseni nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukufuna kumenya, kuti ndikhalepo kuti ndikutetezeni.’
Makumi 205. Khalani bata ndi kupitiriza
Lansbury akuwonetsa kuti ana ang'onoang'ono amatha kutiyesa akamayesa kuwomba, ndikuwona zomwe zingatenge kuti tisokonezeke komanso kutitsitsimutsidwa. Musatenge nyambo. Letsani mphamvu mayesowa powatenga pang'onopang'ono ndikulumikizana mopepuka komanso modziwa, akulangiza. Hmm... simunatulutse galuyo, komabe iye ali… Verrrry wodabwitsa. Wolemba za makolo Melanie Pinola amapereka njira yabwino yochotsera bodza kuti mupeze zotsatira zomwe mukufuna: M'malo monena kuti 'Kodi mwatsuka mano anu?' m'mawu otsutsa (mwachiwonekere sanatero), ingonenani kuti 'Munali mmenemo kwa nthawi yochepa chonchi. , sindikuganiza kuti munapukuta mokwanira. Tiyeni tibwerere ndipo tichite mosamalitsa kwambiri.’ Cholinga panthaŵiyi n’kupeŵa ming’alu, osati kuchita nkhondo zachikhulupiriro. Komanso, kuchita ngati wofunsa mafunso kumangopangitsa ana kukhala ndi mantha kwambiri ndipo zimawavuta kunena zoona nthawi ina.
ZOKHUDZANA : Mouziridwa ndi Jennifer Garner, Ndinayesa Tsiku la Inde ndi Ana Anga. Apa ndi Zomwe Zinachitika.
