Nkhani ya mkazi ya pempho lake yalakwika ndi kuyambitsa mkwiyo pa intaneti .
Mayi wazaka 24 - yemwe amapita ndi engagementringantique pa Reddit - adagawana nkhani yake mu r/AITA ( Am I The A****** ) subreddit ndikuyembekeza kupeza malingaliro pazochitika zokhumudwitsa.
'Anakwiya kwambiri ndipo anandiuza kuti ndine wodzikonda'
Posachedwapa, engagementringantique adatenga bwenzi lake - yemwe adamupatsa dzina lakuti Mia - kunyumba ya agogo ake a nyanja, komwe adafunsira. Anati inde, ndipo zinthu zinali zangwiro - mawu ofunika: anali.
Pamene ankanyamula kuti abwerere ku mzinda, Mia anatenga engagementringantique pambali ndipo anamuuza kuti amadana ndi mphete engagmentringantique akufuna ndi.
Zachidziwikire, engagementringantique zidamupweteka pang'ono popeza adakhala miyezi ingapo kufunafuna mphete yabwino kwambiri, koma adanena kuti anali wokondwa kupita kukagula kuti akapeze mphete yomwe Mia amakonda.
Komabe, izi sizinali zomwe Mia ankafuna. Anandiuza kuti akufuna mphete yanga yachinkhoswe yakale, engagementringantique anafotokoza. Ndavala mphete iyi kuyambira ndili 16 ndipo ndiyofunikira KWA ine. Agogo anga aamuna omwe ndidali oyandikana nawo kwambiri adandipatsa asanamwalire.
Ndidamuuza kuti sindimufunsira mphete iyi, ndipo sindinaganizepo za izi ndipo adakwiya kwambiri ndikunditchula kuti wodzikonda, kundiuza kuti cholinga cha mphete yachinkhoswe ndikufunsira wina yemwe ali nayo. , ndipo ndikanamufunsira nazo.
Atakana kugonja, Mia anamuuza kuti sakufuna [] mphete ya chibwenzi ngati satenga [yakale. Panthawiyi, engagementringantique akuti iye ndi bwenzi lake sakukambirana kwenikweni ndipo anzake a Mia adafikira kumuuza kuti ndi wodzikonda chifukwa chosamupatsa [mphete].
AF 'yonyenga ndi yolakwa-trippy'
Ngakhale abwenzi a Mia amaganiza kuti engageringantique ndi kudzikonda, ambiri a Reddit ali kumbali yake.
Izi ndizoyenera komanso machitidwe a mbendera yofiira kumbali yake! munthu mmodzi adatero .
Kunena kuti sakufuna mphete yachinkhoswe ngati sikuti wina ndi wonyenga komanso wodziimba mlandu AF, wogwiritsa ntchito wina. anawonjezera . Ndi mwana yemwe amakwiya ... Osalola kugwedezeka pa chinthu chomwe chili ndi tanthauzo lalikulu kwa inu.
Iye ndi amene akukhala wodzikonda, munthu wachitatu anabwereza . Kunena kuti sakufuna mphete ngati sangakhale nayo [yako] ndi zachibwana kwambiri. Iyi si njira yabwino yoyambira ukwati. Poganizira kufunikira kwa mpheteyo kwa inu komanso momwe adasankhira, ndikhulupilira kuti simudzamvera zomwe akufuna kuti zinthu ziyende bwino.
Ngati mudakonda nkhaniyi, onani nkhani yaposachedwa ya malangizo a In The Know, Macheza a Gulu .
