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Kudzidalira ndi gawo lofunikira pakukula kwamwana wathanzi. Zimathandiza ana kuthana ndi zolakwitsa, kuyesanso ngakhale atalephera kwa nthawi yoyamba, zomwe zimawapangitsa kuzindikira ndikuyamikira kuthekera ndi kuthekera kwawo. Kudzidalira kumathandiza ana kuthana ndi zopinga, kukakamizidwa ndi anzawo komanso zovuta zina zomwe amakumana nazo pamoyo wawo [1] .
Ana omwe amadzidalira amadziona kuti ndi abwino komanso ana omwe sadzidalira samadzidalira. Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti ana omwe amadzidalira amakhala ndi chiopsezo chachikulu chovutika ndi nkhawa komanso kukhumudwa [ziwiri] , [3] .
Ana akadzidalira, amanyadira zomwe amachita, amakhala otsimikiza ndipo amadzikhulupirira. Mwana aliyense ndi wosiyana ndipo pomwe ana ena amakhala ndi kudzidalira mosavuta ena amafunikira thandizo locheperako kuchokera kwa makolo awo kuti akhale ndi kudzidalira.
Nawa maupangiri amomwe makolo angathandizire mwana wawo kudzidalira kuti mwana athe kuthana ndi zovuta zomwe amakumana nazo.
1. Lankhulani zabwino
Kulephera kumabweretsa malingaliro olakwika omwe angapangitse mwana kukayikira za kudzidalira kwawo ndipo izi zitha kuchepetsa kudzidalira. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuti makolo aphunzitse mwana wawo kuvomereza ndikuwapangitsa kuti amvetsetse kuti zolephera ndi gawo la moyo ndipo kuti atha kugwiritsa ntchito mwayiwu kuphunzira ndikukula ndikuchita bwino nthawi ina. Makolo ayenera kuphunzitsa ana awo mawu olimbikitsa chifukwa angathandize kusintha malingaliro awo [4] .
2. Onetsani chikondi chopanda malire
Kudzidalira kumabwera chifukwa chodzimva okondedwa komanso otetezeka. Kuwonetsa chikondi chopanda malire kwa mwana wanu kudzawapatsa kumverera kwaubwenzi, chitetezo ndi kukhala nawo zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti azisangalala ndi iwo eni. Kondani mwana wanu mosasamala kanthu za zomwe amalakwitsa kapena zosankha zoyipa ndikupewa kuwadzudzula [5] .
3. Khalani chitsanzo chabwino
Ana nthawi zonse amazindikira momwe makolo awo akukhalira pamoyo wawo komanso momwe amathana ndikulephera ndikupambana. Pamene makolo akuchita ntchito zawo molimba mtima komanso akunyadira ntchito yomwe adachita bwino, ana amawona ndipo izi zimawaphunzitsa kuchita zomwezo [6] .
4. Yamikani khama lawo
Yamikirani zoyesayesa za mwana wanu, kupita patsogolo kwake ndi malingaliro ake pazonse zomwe akuchita, m'malo mongoyang'ana kumuyamika pazabwino zokha. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwana wanu akuphunzira chida choimbira kapena akugwira ntchito inayake, muziyamikira. Yamikirani ana anu chifukwa chochita khama pazinthu zomwe zimawalimbikitsa ndikuwathandiza kudzidalira [7] .
5. Alimbikitseni kuti aphunzire zatsopano
Makolo ayenera kulimbikitsa ana awo kuti azichita zinthu zatsopano kaya akhale olowa nawo m'kalasi kapena kukhala nawo pagulu la mpira pasukulu. Auzeni kuti ali olimba mtima poyesa zinthu zatsopano ndipo akhoza kuchita bwino kwambiri. Izi zithandiza kulimbikitsa kulimba mtima kwa mwana wanu pophunzira zinthu zatsopano.
6. Osayerekezera ana anu ndi ena
Pewani kuyerekezera ana anu ndi anzawo chifukwa izi zimawonjezera nkhawa zawo. Ana amafuna kusangalatsa makolo awo nthawi zonse ndipo ngati sangakwanitse kutero, izi zimachepetsa chidaliro cha mwana wanu ndikuyamba kukhulupirira kuti aliyense ali bwino kuposa iwo.
7. Osadzudzula magwiridwe awo
Kudzudzula zoyesayesa za mwana wanu kudzawalepheretsa kuyesanso. Apatseni malingaliro ndikuwalimbikitsa momwe angachitire bwino nthawi ina. Ana akamadzudzulidwa chifukwa cha zolakwa zawo, zimawononga kudzidalira kwawo. Komanso ngati mwana wanu akuopa kulephera chifukwa amadandaula kuti mudzakwiya, izi zitha kumulepheretsa kuti ayesenso. Choncho pewani kumudzudzula mwankhanza ndipo lankhulani naye mosangalala [8] .
8. Patsani mwana wanu udindo
Apatseni mwana wanu maudindo ena, omwe ndi oyenera msinkhu wawo, mwachitsanzo apatseni ntchito zina zapakhomo chifukwa zidzakupatsani chisangalalo. Yamikirani ndikuthokoza kuyesetsa kwawo pantchito zomwe akuchita bwino ndipo muwauze kuti azikhala bwino tsiku lililonse. Izi zitha kuthandiza kwambiri kuti mukhale olimba mtima komanso olimba mtima.
9. Samalani pazabwino zawo
Samalani zomwe ana anu amakonda kuchita ndikuonetsetsa kuti akwanitsa kuchita. Ganizirani pazabwino zawo akamafuna kuchita china chake chifukwa izi zimawapangitsa kudzimva kuti ndi abwino komanso kudzidalira komanso luso lawo.
10. Lolani mwana wanu kulephera
Ndizachilengedwe kuti makolo amafuna kuteteza mwana wawo kuti alephere, koma poyesedwa ndi zolakwika zidzathandiza ana anu kuphunzira ndikukula. Ngati ana alephera china chake, alimbikitseni kuti adzayesetse kudzakumananso nthawi ina. Aphunzitseni kupanga zopinga zilizonse mwayi wakukula ndi kukonza.
11. Khalani ndi zolinga
Kukhazikitsa ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga zenizeni, zazing'ono kapena zazikulu zingawapangitse kukhala olimba komanso otha kuchita bwino. Makolo ayenera kuthandiza ana awo kusintha maloto awo kukhala zolinga powalimbikitsa kuti alembe zinthu zomwe akufuna kukwaniritsa ndikuwathandiza kuphunzira maluso omwe amafunikira kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo.
Ma FAQ Omwe Amakonda
Q. Nchiyani chimapangitsa kuti mwana asamadziderere?
KU. Osasangalala paubwana chifukwa chodzudzulidwa mwankhanza ndi makolo kapena aphunzitsi, kusachita bwino maphunziro komanso zovuta pamoyo wawo ndi zina mwazomwe zimayambitsa kudzidalira kwa ana.
Q. Zizindikiro za kudziona kuti ndi wotsika mwa mwana ndi ziti?
KU. Kukhala ndi chithunzi cholakwika cha iwo eni, osadzidalira, osungulumwa komanso osungulumwa komanso kupewa kuyesa zatsopano ndi zina mwazizindikiro zakudzidalira.
Q. Ndingatani kuti mwana wanga akhale wotsimikiza?
KU. Limbikitsani mwana wanu kuti muzindikire zomwe akwanitsa kuchita, khalani chitsanzo chabwino, lolani ana anu kuti azunguliridwa ndi anthu abwino ndikuwaphunzitsanso zamakhalidwe abwino.