Ubwino Wantchito Zapakhomo: Zifukwa 8 Zomwe Muyenera Kuzipereka Kwa Ana Anu Tsopano

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Nkhani yabwino kwa makolo—ofufuza amanena kuti pali phindu lalikulu la ntchito zapakhomo, monga momwe zimakhudzira ana anu. (Ndipo, ayi, si nkhani yokhayo yakuti udzuwo umadulidwa.) Pano, zifukwa zisanu ndi zitatu zowagawira, kuphatikizapo mndandanda wa ntchito zoyenera zaka kaya mwana wanu ali ndi zaka ziwiri kapena khumi.

Zogwirizana: Njira 8 Zothandizira Ana Anu Kuti Agwire Ntchito Zawo Zapakhomo

1. Mwana Wanu Akhoza Kukhala Wachipambano

Pamene Dr. Marty Rossmann wochokera ku yunivesite ya Minnesota kusanthula deta kuchokera ku kafukufuku wanthawi yayitali kutsatira ana 84 m’zaka zinayi za moyo wawo, anapeza kuti amene ankagwira ntchito zapakhomo ali aang’ono anakula kukhala ochita bwino m’maphunziro ndi m’ntchito zawo zoyambirira. Izi zili choncho chifukwa chidziwitso chaudindo chomwe munchkin wanu amamva pakutsitsa chotsukira mbale chizikhala naye moyo wake wonse. Koma nachi chogwira: Zotsatira zabwino kwambiri zinawonedwa pamene ana anayamba kugwira ntchito zapakhomo ali ndi zaka zitatu kapena zinayi. Ngati adayamba kuthandiza ali okulirapo (monga 15 kapena 16) ndiye kuti zotsatira zidabweza, ndipo otenga nawo mbali sanasangalale ndi milingo yofanana yachipambano. Yambani ndikuuza mwana wanu kuti achotse zoseweretsa zake kenako ndikugwira ntchito zazikulu monga kukweza bwalo akamakula. (Koma kudumpha mumilu yamasamba kuyenera kusangalatsidwa pazaka zilizonse).

2. Adzakhala Osangalala Ngati Akuluakulu

Ndizovuta kukhulupirira kuti kupatsa ana ntchito zapakhomo kudzawapangitsa kukhala osangalala, koma molingana ndi nthawi yayitali Maphunziro a Yunivesite ya Harvard , zikhoza basi. Ofufuza adasanthula anthu 456 ndipo adapeza kuti kufunitsitsa ndi kuthekera kogwira ntchito ali mwana (pogwira ntchito yanthawi yochepa kapena ntchito zapakhomo, mwachitsanzo) zinali zolosera bwino za thanzi laubongo akadzakula kuposa zinthu zina zambiri kuphatikiza nkhani zamagulu ndi mabanja. . Yesetsani kukumbukira zimenezi mukamamvabe mwana wanu akulira chifukwa cha phokoso la vacuum cleaner.

3. Adzaphunzira Mmene Mungasamalire Nthawi

Ngati mwana wanu ali ndi homuweki yambiri yoti achite kapena kugona kokonzekeratu kuti apiteko, zingakhale zokopa kumupatsa mwayi wopita kuntchito zawo zapakhomo. Koma wamkulu wakale wa anthu atsopano komanso upangiri wamaphunziro apamwamba ku yunivesite ya Stanford Julie Lythcott-Haims amalangiza motsutsa izo. Moyo weniweni udzafuna kuti iwo achite zinthu zonsezi, akutero. Akakhala kuntchito, pangakhale nthawi zoti azigwira ntchito mochedwa, koma amafunikirabe kupita kokagula zinthu ndi kutsuka mbale. Palibe mawu oti ngati kugwira ntchito zapakhomo kumabweretsa maphunziro a Ivy League.

4. Adzakumana ndi Opaleshoni Yakukulitsa Ubongo

Inde, kusiya zogulira kapena kupalira m'mundamo kumatengedwa ngati ntchito zapakhomo, komanso ndi gawo labwino kwambiri pamaphunziro akulu omwe amayamba chifukwa cha zochitika zoyenda, akutero Sally Goddard Blythe Mwana Wanzeru . Ganizilani izi motere: Ubwana ndi pamene thupi la ubongo wanu likukula ndikusintha, koma zochitika za manja, makamaka zozikidwa pa zochitika zolimbitsa thupi zomwe zimafuna kulingalira, ndizofunikira kwambiri pakukula kumeneko. Chitsanzo: Ngati mwana wanu akukonza tebulo, akusuntha ndikuyala mbale, siliva ndi zina. Koma akugwiritsanso ntchito luso la kusanthula ndi masamu m’moyo weniweniwo pamene akutsanzira malo alionse, kuwerengera ziwiya za chiwerengero cha anthu omwe ali patebulo, ndi zina zotero. Izi zimatsegula njira yopambana m’mabwalo ena, kuphatikizapo kuwerenga ndi kulemba.

5. Adzakhala ndi Maubale Abwinoko

Dr. Rossmann anapezanso kuti ana amene anayamba kuthandiza panyumba adakali aang’ono amakhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi achibale komanso anzawo akamakula. Izi mwina zili choncho chifukwa ntchito zapakhomo zimaphunzitsa ana kufunika kothandiza mabanja awo ndi kugwirira ntchito limodzi, zomwe zimamasulira chifundo chabwinoko akakula. Komanso, monga momwe munthu aliyense wokwatira angatsimikizire, kukhala wothandizira, woyeretsa komanso wochotsa sock-putter-away-er zingakupangitseni kukhala okondedwa kwambiri.

6. Adzakhala Bwino Kusamalira Ndalama

Kudziŵa kuti simungaseŵera ndi anzanu kapena kuonera TV kufikira mutachita ntchito zanu zapakhomo kumaphunzitsa ana za kudziletsa ndi kudziletsa, zimene pambuyo pake zingawatsogolere kudziŵa zambiri zandalama. Ndizo molingana ndi a Maphunziro a Yunivesite ya Duke zomwe zinatsatira ana 1,000 ku New Zealand kuyambira pamene anabadwa mpaka zaka 32 ndipo anapeza kuti anthu omwe sadziletsa amakhala ndi luso lotha kugwiritsa ntchito bwino ndalama. (Ponena za kumangiriza ntchito zapakhomo, mungafune kuwongolera, pa Nyanja ya Atlantic , popeza zimenezo zingatumize uthenga wosapindulitsa wonena za udindo wabanja ndi wa anthu wamba.)

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7. Adzayamikira Zochita za Gulu

Nyumba yosangalatsa ndi nyumba yokonzedwa. Izi tikudziwa. Koma ana akuphunzirabe kufunika kodzitengera zinthu zimene amazisunga komanso kusamalira zinthu zimene amazikonda. Ntchito zapakhomo - kunena, kukulunga ndi kuyika zovala zawo kapena kuzungulira omwe akugwira ntchito yophika - ndi njira yabwino yodumphira pothandizira kukhazikitsa chizoloŵezi ndi kulimbikitsa malo opanda zosokoneza.

8. Adzaphunzira Maluso Amtengo Wapatali

Sitikunena chabe za zinthu zoonekeratu monga kudziwa kukolopa pansi kapena kutchetcha udzu. Ganizirani: Kuwona chemistry ikugwira ntchito pothandizira kuphika chakudya chamadzulo kapena kuphunzira za biology pothandizira m'munda. Ndiye palinso maluso ena onse ofunikira monga kuleza mtima, kulimbikira, kugwirira ntchito limodzi ndi kulimbikira ntchito. Bweretsani tchati cha ntchito.

Ntchito Zogwirizana ndi Zaka za Ana Azaka 2 mpaka 12:

Ntchito: Zaka 2 ndi 3

• Nyamulani zidole ndi mabuku
• Thandizani kudyetsa ziweto zilizonse
• Ikani zovala mu hamper mu chipinda chawo

Ntchito: Zaka 4 ndi 5

• Khazikitsani ndi kuthandizira kukonza tebulo
• Thandizani kuchotsa zakudya
• Fumbi mashelefu (mutha kugwiritsa ntchito sock)

Ntchito: Zaka 6 mpaka 8

• Chotsani zinyalala
• Thandizani kupukuta ndi kukolopa pansi
• Pindani ndikuyikamo zovala

Ntchito: Zaka 9 mpaka 12

• Tsukani mbale ndikuyika chotsukira mbale
• Sambani bafa
• Gwirani ntchito chochapira ndi chowumitsira zovala
• Thandizani pokonzekera chakudya chosavuta

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