Ndikasisita kamwana ka mwana wanga woyamba wakhanda ndi dzanja limodzi ndikudutsa pa foni yanga ndi linalo, ndidawona nkhani yowopsa patsamba lodziwika bwino lomwe linali ndi nkhope za ana ang'onoang'ono akamawonera kanema wawayilesi. Ana aja ali ndi nsagwada zogwedera, amayang'anitsitsa zowonera, akuwoneka ngati zombie kuposa anthu.
Ndidakoka fungo losangalatsa la khandalo pakhosi la mwana wanga wamkazi wogona, ndikupsompsona tsaya lake laling'ono, ndikulumbira kuti sadzakhala m'modzi mwa ana a zombie.
Koma ife tiri pano. Zaka zisanu, mchimwene wake m'modzi, komanso mliri wapadziko lonse lapansi pambuyo pake…
Bweretsani Zombies kuti amayi athe kupuma.
Sesame Street anali mankhwala olowera pachipata chathu pamene wamkulu wanga adakwanitsa. Zinkawoneka zosalakwa mokwanira. Kupatula apo, zinali zophunzitsa. Ndinakulirapo, ndipo ndinakhala bwino ... ndikuganiza. Nyimbo Zosavuta Kwambiri ndi Cocomelon , nyimbo za ana ang'onoang'ono zokhala ndi katuni zinabweranso. Koma izo ndi, monga, nyimbo ndi zithunzi. Anatithandiza kuti tidutse nthawi yokumana ndi zolimbitsa thupi komanso maulendo apagalimoto. Iwo sanawerengedwe ngati TV. Makina a Blaze ndi Monster anali masamu. Super Chifukwa! anali kuwerenga. Paw Patrol anali…kugwira ntchito limodzi ndi kuthetsa mavuto, ndikuganiza?
Chiwonetsero chomwe akufunsidwa kwambiri ndi ana anga awiri akusukulu ndi ... *Amaphimba maso ndikugwedeza mutu.*
Lino ncinzi ciyoocitika—cibalo cangu cakusyomeka, mubelesi wangu wamagetsi—acikozyanyo cini-cini.
Pakati pa anzanga a makolo, nthawi yowonekera yokhudzana ndi Covid ndichinthu chomwe aliyense amachita nthabwala koma samawerengera. Tonse timaganiza kuti ana akuwonera kanema wawayilesi…koma ndi ola limodzi patsiku? Maola asanu patsiku? Kodi masewera apakanema amawerengedwa? Mutha Masewera a Bubble Guppies kuperekedwa pansi pa TV yophunzitsa?
Mayi mnzanga mnyumba yanga atagwidwa ndi Covid mwatsoka nthawi yomweyo mwamuna wake ndi mwana wawo wamkazi wazaka zitatu, ndidamuwuza kuti asiye malamulo anthawi yowonekera ndikulola mwana wake wamkazi aziwonera TV yonse. Ananditumizira mameseji kuti: 'Ndine ndekha. Amaonera TV kwa maola awiri athunthu patsiku.'
Zimenezo zinandiimitsabe.
Masabata angapo apitawo, ana anga amaonera TV maola awiri asanadye kadzutsa. Pamene tonse tinali athanzi kotheratu.
Ndikudziwa kuti ndi nyengo yachisanu ndipo ndikuyesera kusangalatsa ana achangu omwe ali m'nyumba ya 1200-square-square, yokhala ndi zipinda ziwiri zogona popanda bwalo ... koma kodi ndine chilombo? Kapena kodi anthu amadula maola ambiri osatsegula nthawi yawo yowonera kuchuluka kwa momwe amawonera kuchuluka kwa zakumwa zomwe amamwa pa sabata pamasewera awo apachaka?
Ndidayamba kuyang'ana kwambiri zokambilana zanthawi zonse zowonera ndikuzindikira kuti ngakhale makolo adaseka momasuka za kuchuluka kwa nthawi yowonera ana awo, palibe amene adatchulapo maola angapo. Kapena ngati akanatero, chiwerengerocho chinali chochepa kwambiri. Ndikawona positi ya Facebook yomwe ikunena ngati, ndamaliza kulera lero. Ndinayika gawo la 'Paw Patrol' ndiyeno nthawi yogona! Um...gawo limodzi ndi lalitali mphindi 22. Patatha sabata yayitali ndipo nditatha kulera tsikulo, ndimayatsa kanema wamtali.
Ndinafunikira mayankho. Chifukwa chake ndidakhala ndi anthu ambiri kudzera pa Instagram yanga. Mufukufuku wosagwirizana ndi sayansi womwe ndidapanga mu Nkhani zanga za Instagram, makolo adanena kuti ana awo akupeza nthawi yowonekera kuposa momwe amakhalira omasuka, ndikuzindikira kuti ndalamazo nthawi zambiri zimakhala ola limodzi kapena atatu patsiku.
Komabe, chimene chinandisangalatsa kwambiri chinali makolo amene analimba mtima kuvomereza kuti ana awo amaonera TV kwa maola oposa atatu patsiku. Makolo omwe adavomereza kuti ana awo amalakalaka mavidiyo ang'onoang'ono a unboxing kapena matepi a ana ena akusewera masewera a pakompyuta. Mayi mmodzi wolimba mtima amene ananena kuti anasiya TV kwa nthawi yaitali m’mawa wina— kwinaku akumasuka ndikudzuka pang'onopang'ono - kuti iye ana adachitapo kanthu kuti azimitsa. Ndipo mukuganiza chiyani? Sanadzimve kukhala wa liwongo nkomwe chifukwa mpumulo wowonjezereka unampangitsa kukhala wokangalika ndi kuyanjana ndi ana tsiku limenelo. Tangoganizani zimenezo.
Masabata angapo apitawo, ndinafunsa katswiri wa ana aang'ono Dr. Tovah P. Klein, mlembi wa How Toddlers Thrive ndi mkulu wa Barnard College Center for Toddler Development, pa nkhani yomwe ndinali kulemba. Kuyesera kuchita zoyankhulana pafoni ndi ana asukulu m'makutu kumandipangitsa kukhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri. Ndimayesetsa kuyang'anitsitsa ntchito yanga ndikudzilimbitsa ndekha chifukwa cha manyazi a kumenyana kwa mchimwene wanga womveka kapena pempho la potty. Kumapeto kwa kuyankhulana, Dr. Klein anati, Muli ndi ana? Ali kuti? Sindikumva kalikonse.
Ndidaseka, O, ndichifukwa ndidawakhazikitsa ndi iPad komanso pulogalamu yawo yoyipa ya YouTube.
Ndinkayembekeza kuseka kwachidziwitso, koma ndinapeza china chabwinoko - kutsimikizika.
Ngakhale kukhala m'dziko lopanda zowonera ndikwabwino, Dr. Klein adati zowonera zitha kukhala ngati chida chofunikira kuti munthu apulumuke tsiku lililonse. Ndi amodzi mwa njira zathu zochepa zolumikizirana komanso zosangalatsa zamkati. Adanditsimikizira kuti ngakhale zowonera zitha kukhala zenizeni zathu, siziyenera kukhala tsogolo lathu. Pamene nyengo ikupita bwino ndipo anthu amalandira katemera, mwachibadwa mabanja amathera nthawi yochuluka ali panja—kutali ndi zowonera. Chifukwa chake palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa ngati ana anu amangoyang'ana kwakanthawi pazithunzi (zovomerezeka ndi makolo) pafupipafupi kuposa momwe mungafune.
Pamene amalankhula, ndinatsala pang'ono kufa ndi chisangalalo. Kodi ndingayerekeze kukhulupirira kuti ndikhoza kusiya kudziimba mlandu amayi pa nthawi yowonekera? Ndinkaona ngati ndikufunika chizindikiro chochokera m’chilengedwe chonse. Yachiwiri ndinaiona Amy Schumer kuvomereza Dr. Klein tsiku lotsatira, Ndinapereka iPads.
Masiku ano ndikuyesera kuyesetsa kuchita bwino pakati pa kugwira ntchito, kusewera ndi ana anga, kusinthasintha zoseweretsa zawo ndikukhazikitsa. Mwana Wotanganidwa - zochita za kalembedwe. Ndipo pamene tonse tikufunika kupuma wina ndi mzake, ndikuyesera kuti ndisadzimve kuti ndiwe wolakwa pakugwiritsa ntchito zowonetsera ngati chida chothandizira. Koma ndimayesetsa kusintha mtundu wa TV imene timaonera ngati n’kotheka.
Sindikukakamiza atsikana kuti aziwonera zinthu zamaphunziro apamwamba, koma ndikapeza pulogalamu yomwe ingaphunzitse komanso kusangalatsa, ndimalimbikitsa kwambiri. Ndiye pita Emily's Wonder Lab zomwe zimathandizira ana anga ku njira yasayansi yosinthidwa Bambo Wizard mtundu wa njira. Kukonda ku Ufumu wa Koala wa Izzy chifukwa chowonetsa otsutsa okongola kwambiri padziko lapansi ndi mwana wamkazi wokoma wa veterinarian yemwe amawasamalira; imatonthoza komanso imasangalatsa komanso imadziwitsa. Ndipo cheers to Bluey kuthandiza makolo ndi ana kugwiritsa ntchito maluso okhudzana ndi chikhalidwe, malingaliro, ndi kuseka kuti adutse tsiku lonse.
Ndipo za makanema oyipa a YouTube a ana ongosewera ndi zidole…Ndili othokoza kwambiri chifukwa cha inu. Ndikukayika kuti mukuphunzitsa ana anga chilichonse chothandiza, koma mumandilola kuti ndizigwira ntchito mwamtendere pakafunika kutero. Sindingathe kudikirira mpaka mutakhala pagalasi lakumbuyo, koma nthawi yomweyo, sindikudziwa kuti tikanapulumuka bwanji m'nyengo yozizira popanda inu.
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