A TikToker ikuyambitsa zokambirana zambiri atafotokoza momwe amakondwerera Tsiku la Chisoni lapachaka.
Britt , Mnyamata wazaka 25 waku Chicago, adagawana lingaliroli pagawo laposachedwa, lomwe lakopa anthu masauzande ambiri. Muvidiyoyi, adaphwanya mwambo wapachaka - womwe wakhala akukondwerera kuyambira ali wachinyamata pomwe ngozi idamupangitsa kukhala ndi vuto lopweteka kwambiri.
Kuti avomereze tsikulo, Britt amathera tsiku lonse akuchita zinthu zingapo zodzisamalira. Amavala, amayenda kwinakwake kokongola, amavina padenga lake kapena amadzipangira mchere kumapeto kwa tsiku.
Monga Britt anafotokoza mu kopanira , Tsiku la Chisoni chake ndi mwayi wodzilingalira. Polankhula ndi In The Know, adafotokoza chifukwa chake mwayiwu ndi wofunikira kwambiri.
Ndikuganiza kuti Tsiku la Chisoni limandilola kulabadira malingaliro kapena malingaliro ambiri omwe ndingakhale ndikukankhira pansi pamasiku okhazikika, osadzilola kuganiza mozama za momwe moyo wanga kapena thupi langa lasinthira, Britt adatero. Mu Kudziwa. Pa Tsiku la Chisoni, ndimadzipatsa mpata woti ndiganizire mozama za zinthuzo ndikuyamika thupi langa chifukwa chondithandizira zonsezi.
@myelasticheartNdi Tsiku la Chisoni 🥀 #EhlersDanlos #CRPS
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Britt adauza In The Know kuti adayamba kukondwerera Tsiku la Chisoni pa tsiku loyamba la ngozi yake.
Mu iye TikTok, adatcha nthawi imeneyo mosakayikira chaka choyipa kwambiri pamoyo wake. Wazaka 25 - yemwenso ali nawo Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS), gulu la ma genetic omwe amakhudza minofu yolumikizana ndi thupi - idapangidwa zovuta zowawa zachigawo (CRPS), matenda opweteka omwe nthawi zambiri amakhudza manja kapena miyendo ya munthu.
Zotsatira zake, Britt anayenera kutenga chaka chimodzi asanayambe koleji. Ataona abwenzi ake akukondwerera zochitika zazikulu pamoyo wawo, adaganiza kuti akufunika njira yothanirana ndi zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo wake.
Anzanga onse anali kukondwerera kumaliza zaka zawo zoyambirira za koleji kapena ma internship awo atsopano, adatero. Ndipo inali njira yaying'ono yovomerezera kuti, ngakhale sindinachite chilichonse mwazinthuzo, ndinadutsamo zambiri ndikupulumuka zomwe zinali zopambana.
Poyamba, Britt sankadziwa zoti atchule chikondwererochi. Poyamba ankawona ngati Tsiku Lopweteka. M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, Tsiku la Chisoni linayamba kutanthauza zambiri.
Tsiku la Chisoni lidadzaza maliro omwe ndimafunikira kuti ndimve, koma idatenganso mwayi wokondwerera Chisoni chimenecho ndi zinthu zokongola zomwe zidakula kuchokera pamenepo - chilakolako changa cholimbikitsa, anthu ammudzi omwe ndapeza komanso munthu yemwe ndili pano, adauza In The Know.
Masiku a Chisoni a Britt amabwera ndi malingaliro ovuta komanso kukumbukira zamphamvu. Chaka china, adawona kutuluka kwa dzuwa ku Nyanja ya Michigan. Chaka chatha, panthawi ya mliri, adakhala tsiku lonse akuwonera makanema angapo omwe adapanga atangochita ngozi.
Lingalirolo lidatulutsa matamando amitundu yonse pa TikTok. Nkhani zosawerengeka, chithandizo ndi zikomo zidadzaza gawo la ndemanga la Britt.
Sindikukumbukira tsiku lenileni la kuvulala kwa msana wanga, koma zinali pafupi tsopano, wosuta m'modzi analemba . Kanemayu analankhula nanedi.
Sindinamvepo za lingaliro ili, koma ndikufuna kuyesa china chake, china chinanso.
Monga momwe ogwiritsa ntchito ena adanenera, anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la msana nthawi zina amakondwerera lingaliro lofanana, lotchedwa a tsiku la moyo . Chikumbutso, chomwe chimakondweretsedwanso nthawi ya ngozi kapena zowawa, chitha kukhala mwayi wosinkhasinkha, kudzisamalira, kukonza, chisoni ndi zina zambiri.
Inde, njirayi ikhoza kusewera mosiyana kwa anthu omwe amabadwa olumala, poyerekeza ndi omwe amapeza pambuyo pa moyo. Mwachitsanzo, kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la msana amakonda nenani kuchuluka kwa kukhutitsidwa kwa moyo pamene akupitirirabe kuyambira tsiku la kuvulazidwa kwawo.
Panthawiyi, olemba ena olumala asonyeza kuti kusinthika kumeneku kulibe njira yofanana kwa anthu obadwa ndi chilema. Monga Tom Shakespeare adalembera BBC mu 2014, gawo lina la izi lingakhale lokhudzana ndi mfundo yakuti anthu obadwa ndi chilema alibe chilichonse chomwe angafanizire moyo wawo wamakono.
Wina yemwe alibe kumva kapena kupenya sanamvepo nyimbo kapena kuyimba kwa mbalame, zojambulajambula kapena malo owoneka bwino, Shakespeare adawonjezera. Wina wonga ine, wobadwa ndi zoletsa kukula, wakhala wotero.
Izi zitha kufotokozera chifukwa chomwe ma TikToker ambiri anali asanamvepo za lingaliro la Britt la Tsiku la Chisoni. TikToker, yemwe wakhala akulemba za EDS ndi CRPS kuyambira koyambirira kwa mliriwu, adati adadabwa ndi momwe malingaliro ake akuwoneka kuti akugwirizana.
Ndinadabwa, adatero, koma zinandisangalatsa kwambiri kuona mwambo wangawu ukukhala maziko othandiza kwa ena. Ndikukhulupirira kuti zilimbikitsa anthu ambiri kuti apeze malo pamalingaliro akuluwo - ndikuwatsimikizira kuti kuli bwino kulira, kapena kukondwerera, kapena kukhala ndi malingaliro osakanikirana masiku amenewo. Palibe njira yolakwika yochitira izo.
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