Kodi millennials ndi gulu la avocado-toast-obsessed cretins omwe amayembekezera zikho zotenga nawo gawo ndi thandizo landalama kuchokera kwa makolo awo? Kapena kodi achulukidwa ndi ntchito za malipiro ochepa, chitsenderezo chosalekeza cha ‘kuchita’ pa intaneti ndi kuwonjezereka kwa kusakhulupirira mabungwe amene awalephera?
Mosasamala kanthu za msasa womwe mulimo, muyenera kupeza zidziwitso zatsopano Sindingathe Ngakhale: Momwe Zaka Chikwi Zinakhalira Mbadwo Wopsereza ndi Anne Helen Petersen.
Wobadwa kuchokera munkhani yake ya Januware 2019 BuzzFeed, ' Momwe Zaka Chikwi Zinakhalira Mbadwo Wopsereza ,’ Simungathe Ngakhale amapeza wolemba zachikhalidwe komanso wophunzira wakale Anne Helen Petersen akugwiritsa ntchito zoyankhulana zoyambira komanso kusanthula mwatsatanetsatane kuti awone momwe zaka zikwizikwi zafika panthawiyi-komanso komwe tikupita kuchokera pano.
Petersen adachita zoyankhulana ndi anthu zikwizikwi mumtundu uliwonse, jenda, chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso luso, ndipo zomwe adapeza zimachokera pa lingaliro lakuti mosasamala kanthu za zinthuzi, zaka chikwi akukumana ndi mtundu wapadera wa kutopa, chifukwa cha mphepo yamkuntho yachuma cha gig, kupanga ndalama pazokonda, intaneti (Instagram, makamaka) komanso kukakamizidwa kuti muzisuntha nthawi zonse, kuwona ndi kuwonedwa. Amayambitsa Caitlin, mayi yemwe amadziwika kuti ndi wamitundu iwiri ndipo anakulira m'matawuni a Washington, D.C., m'ma 1980. Ndinayamba kudzimva wotanganidwa ndili ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, Caitlin akuuza Petersen. Ngakhale masiku ake osambira, T-mpira, kalasi ya zojambulajambula ndi maphunziro ena owonjezera ali kutali kwambiri, zotsatira za ubwana wake wochuluka zimakhalabe: Monga wamkulu, ndazindikira kuti ndimapanikizika pamene sindikuchita chinachake, Caitlin akutero. Ndimadziimba mlandu ndikungomasuka. Ngakhale ku koleji, ndinadzipeza kuti ndikufunika kutenga magawo khumi ndi asanu ndi atatu mpaka khumi ndi asanu ndi anai pa semesita, kukhala ndi ntchito ya kusukulu, kujowina makalabu, kudzipereka, kugwira ntchito pamasewero ndi nyimbo, ndipo ndimamvabe ngati sindikuchita mokwanira.
Ngakhale amavomereza kuti m'badwo uliwonse umakhala ndi zovuta zake (omwe amatchedwa 'm'badwo waukulu kwambiri,' mwachitsanzo anali ndi Depression ndi GI Bill), zaka zikwizikwi zakhala zikulimbana ndi zopinga zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikiza mavuto azachuma a 2008. , kuchepa kwa anthu apakati ndi kukwera kwa 1 peresenti ndi kuwonongeka kosalekeza kwa migwirizano ndi ntchito zokhazikika, zanthawi zonse.
Monga m'buku lake la 2017 Kunenepa Kwambiri, Kuchulukira Kwambiri, Kufuula Kwambiri , Petersen akudziwonetsa yekha kukhala wotsutsa kwambiri zachikhalidwe, ngakhale adanenanso kuti palibe njira yothetsera mavuto a m'badwo wamakono. Monga momwe adalembera m'chidutswa chake choyambirira, Vuto lakutopa kwathunthu, kotheratu ndikuti palibe njira yothetsera vutolo. Simungathe kukulitsa kuti izitha mwachangu. Simungachiwone chikubwera ngati chimfine ndikuyamba kutenga njira yopewera kupsa mtima ya Airborne. Njira yabwino yoyambira kuchiza, amalingalira, kuti ayambe kuvomereza ndi kuyankhula za matenda aakulu osati matenda a nthawi yochepa. Petersen mwiniwake amadzitonthoza poganiza kuti, Si vuto lomwe ndingathe kulithetsa, koma ndizoona zomwe ndingathe kuvomereza, malingaliro omwe ndimatha kumvetsetsa zochita zanga.
Bukuli lidalembedwa - mwachiwonekere - COVID-19 isanachulukitse zambiri mwazinthu izi (makamaka, kusasunthika kwa ntchito, kusowa kwa chithandizo chamankhwala padziko lonse lapansi komanso vuto la chisamaliro cha ana lomwe likukulirakulirabe). Kuphatikiza apo, ngakhale Petersen amachita mwachangu kuyimira gulu losiyanasiyana, amawonanso kuti machitidwe ambiri obwera chifukwa cha zaka chikwi ndi machitidwe a kagulu kakang'ono ka anthu ambiri azungu, makamaka apakati omwe anabadwa pakati pa 1981 ndi 1996.
Pomaliza pake, Simungathe Ngakhale amamva cathartic ziribe kanthu zaka zanu. Kupatula apo, kodi tonsefe sitingatengeke ndi misampha ya FOMO, mipukutu yam'mbali ndi misampha ya ludzu? Kodi si tonsefe tikuchita zomwe tingathe kuti—kugwedezeka—kupitiriza kukula ?
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