Amakuuzani kuti akuwona tsogolo ndi inu. Amayika masiku a masiku pa kalendala, amafunsa kuti dzina la amayi anu ndi ndani, amaumirira kukumana ndi anzanu, amaimba foni pambuyo pogonana ndipo amakonzekera zopitako pang'ono zachikondi.
Ndiyeno tsiku lina, akunena kuti sali wotsimikiza za inu. Wasokonezeka. Iye sali mu udindo wokhala serious ndi aliyense pakali pano. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi, mukubwereranso ubalewo, mukudabwa zomwe munalakwitsa, pomwe mudaphonya zizindikiro. Chenjezo la owononga: Panalibe zizindikiro.
Inde. Walota maloto, bwenzi langa.
Kodi ‘kulota maloto’ padziko lapansi n’chiyani?
Dreamscapers ndi anthu omwe amawonetsa njira yomanga maubale achitetezo mumtambo omwe amapusitsa munthu yemwe amamuwona kuti akuganiza kuti sichinali chenicheni chokha koma chosangalatsa. Zongopeka zomwe amapanga ndizowoneka, koma palibe chothandizira. Ikaphwanyidwa, simunakonzekere, koma amachoka osakhudzidwa ndikupita ku nthano yotsatira.
Dreamscapers ndi odzipereka-phobes pamtima, koma sadziwa kukakamiza kwawo. Chifukwa amalakalaka zabwino zonse zomwe zimabwera ndi ubale (ndipo palibe zoyipa), amakhalabe pachibwenzi chomwe chikuwononga.
Kodi kulota ndikufanana ndi kutsogolera wina?
Kinda…koma ayi. Wina akakutsogolereni, nthawi zambiri amazindikira kuti samakukondani koma akupeza zinazake zomwe sizikuchitikirani - chidwi, kugonana, chisangalalo, kusewera masewera, ndi zina zotero. .)
Dreamscapers, kumbali ina, ndi surrealists. Sakudziwa kuti masomphenya awo a maubwenzi amenewa amachokera kumaganizo amatsenga. Amapangitsa kuti pakhale malo abwino oti pakhale zibwenzi kudzera m'chinenero chawo ndi zochita zawo—chithunzi chophiphiritsira cha bistro wapanja wolota chokongoletsedwa ndi nyali zothwanima. Koma kachiwiri ubalewo ukuchoka pa gawo la agulugufe ndikuyamba kukhala weniweni, madontho a façade - mumadya pitsa yozizira nthawi yonseyi yopanda phokoso.
Chifukwa chiyani munthu angagwere maloto?
Dreamscapers ndi abwino pachibwenzi, ndipo ndiabwino kupangitsa anthu kugwa kwa iwo. Saganizira mopambanitsa zochita zawo pokhapokha afunika (kupuma!) kuwasintha. Iwo amawerenga maganizo ndi vibes wopenga bwino ndi kudziwa ndendende zimene madeti awo akufuna kumva, kumanga kuti nsanja mu mitambo njerwa ndi njerwa. Amagwirizanitsa mosavuta, koma samagwirizanitsa. Gehena, ndizovuta ayi kugwa kwa wolota maloto.
Kodi ndimapewa bwanji kukhala ‘wolota’?
Kumbukirani: Palibe amene amakudziwani mwamatsenga pambuyo pa tsiku limodzi; palibe amene ali wangwiro; ndipo ngati zikuwoneka bwino kwambiri kuti sizoona, mwina ndi choncho. Chenjerani ndi malonjezo oyambirira ndi kulengeza zolinga. Zoyembekeza zabwino kwambiri zimatengera malingaliro awo asananene. Ngati ubale ukuyenda bwino, sakanatha kunyalanyaza nkhani yodzipereka, yomwe imapangitsa kuti malotowo asokonezeke. Munthu amene alidi, moona mtima mwa inu amawonekeranso kwa inu, osati pamene ziri zosangalatsa ndi zinthu zodabwitsa , koma pamene mukuzifunadi—galimoto yanu yawonongeka, mukudwala, mukulimbana ndi vuto la m’banja. Ndipo ngati wolota maloto angakuvutitseni, dzikumbutseni kuti mukuyenera kukhala bwino kuposa maloto. Inu mukuyenera chinachake chenicheni.
Jenna Birch ndi mtolankhani komanso wolemba Kusiyana kwa Chikondi: Dongosolo Lachikulu Lopambana M'moyo ndi Chikondi , chiwongolero chokhazikitsa ubale kwa amayi amakono, komanso mphunzitsi wachibwenzi (kulandira makasitomala atsopano a 2020). Kuti mumufunse funso, lomwe angayankhe mugawo lomwe likubwera laPampereDpeopleny, tumizani imelo ku. jen.birch@sbcglobal.net .
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