Vomerezani: Inu ndi mnzanu mumasinthana miseche ya mnzanu m’malo molankhulana pa pillow, simunavalepo mmodzi wa akazi anu achikondi. zaka ndipo mudasiya kugwiritsa ntchito mawu achinsinsi zaka zapitazo. (Mwa mbiri, iwo anali makangaza.) Ife timachipeza icho, ndipo ife sitikuimba mlandu. Nthawi zina chikondi chimatha. Ichi ndichifukwa chake tidatengera katswiri wazogonana Cassandra Corrado, mphunzitsi wodziyimira pawokha wogonana wophunzitsidwa ku Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health ndipo tsopano ndi Katswiri wa Pleasure pa nsanja yolimbana ndi kugonana ku San Francisco. Sukulu ya O , njira zolankhulirana ndi wokondedwa wanu za kulimbitsanso moyo wanu wachikondi. Nawa maupangiri ake atatu otsegulira ku S.O yanu. za kukweza masewera anu ogonana.
Zithunzi za Hinterhaus / Getty1. Bweretsani Kukambirana Kunja kwa Chipinda Chogona
Langizo loyamba la Corrado: Musabweretse kusakhutira kwanu m'chipinda chogona. Kuyankhula za kufuna zinthu zatsopano zogonana kungakhale kukambirana kosangalatsa, koma kungakhalenso kukambirana kosatetezeka, Corrado amagawana. Kukhala nacho mutavula kale sikupatsa anthu nthawi kapena malo kuti adziwe momwe akumvera pa zinthu. Inde, ngakhale kukopa momwe kungathekere kubweretsa zogonana pamalo omwe mumagonana, ndiye ayi ayi. M'malo mwake, Corrado amalimbikitsa kupeza malo osalowerera komwe onse awiri amakhala omasuka (osanenapo, ovala mokwanira). Kaya mukuyenda limodzi mozungulira m'dera lanu kapena mukukagona pamalo opanda phokoso pa malo ogulitsira khofi omwe mumawakonda, onetsetsani kuti simukubisala pamene mukufotokoza kukhumudwa kwanu ndi momwe zinthu zilili panopa.
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PlusOne2. Chepetsani Zomwe Mukufuna
Ndipo pazomwezi, khalani okonzeka kukambirana zomwe zolinga zanu ndi zomwe mukufuna kwenikweni pazokambirana ndi moyo wanu wachikondi. Kodi pali zatsopano kapena maudindo omwe mumawakonda? Kapena zida zatsopano zomwe mungafune kubweretsa kuchipinda chogona-monga kuyesa a plusOne mini massager ndi mafuta pamodzi? Corrado akulimbikitsa nonse kuti inu ndi mnzanuyo muzifunsana mafunso okhudzana ndi kugonana pa intaneti kuti mumvetse zomwe mukufuna kuchita ndi convo. Amakulolani kuti muganizire zambiri za zinthu zosiyanasiyana zomwe mungasangalale nazo, ndiyeno mudzangodziwa zomwe inu ndi mnzanuyo mudagwirizana nazo, Corrado akulemba. Mwanjira imeneyo, inu ndi S.O wanu. zimayambira pamalo odziwitsidwa, m'malo mongopita ku zokambirana osadziwa zomwe wina akufuna. (FYI: Adanenanso, komabe, kuti mafunso ambiri amangoganiza za maliseche a abwenzi ndipo chifukwa chake saphatikizana.)
Zithunzi za Paul Bradbury / Getty3. Yesani Kufunsa Zonse Mwachindunji komanso Zosalunjika
Pomaliza, Corrado akuwulula kuti pali njira ziwiri zobweretsera mutuwo: mwachindunji (monga Hei, kodi mungakonde kuyesa ukapolo panthawi yogonana? Ndikufuna kuyesa kugwiritsa ntchito zoletsa m'manja.') motsutsana ndi njira zina (kutumiza nkhani? za malo achigololo mungakonde kuyesera ndiyeno kufunsa zimene mnzanuyo akuganiza za izo). Mukhozanso kuyesa kuwonetsa zokometsera zinthu mufilimu yotentha. Ngakhale kuti palibe cholakwika chilichonse, Corrado amaona kuti kufunsa mosapita m’mbali kungakhale njira yabwino yoyambira: Kumakulolani kuti muyambe kukambiranako ndi kudziwa mmene mnzanuyo angamvere musanamufotokozere bwinobwino, akulemba motero. Ndipo ngati izi sizikugwira ntchito, njira yanu yolephera ikuyandikira mutuwo. Ndikumva ngati tiyenera kukhala ndi flamin 'kutentha, kukweza tsitsi, oh-my-god-good kugonana, ndipo sitiri. Ndikuganiza kuti tiyenera kusintha, kotero tiyeni tikambirane, ndi malo abwino kuyamba.
