A amayi wapita tizilombo pothandiza mwana wake wazaka 2 kuti agwire ntchito mopupuluma m'njira yathanzi - ndipo TikTok ikumuyamika luso la kulera ana !
Yolembedwa ndi njira ya TikTok @ nthawi zakulera zoipa , koma adayamikiridwa ndi amayi a TikTok @ wopanda moyo , vidiyoyi yawonedwa pamodzi kambirimbiri - ndipo sizodabwitsa chifukwa chake!
@badparentingmomentsPumulani pakulera koyipa kuti musangalale ndi kulera kwa INCREDIBLE. (Ndalama: @bareyoursoul) #toddlerssofttiktok #momlife #fyp
♬ phokoso loyambirira - BadParentingMoments
Muvidiyoyi, ngati @ wopanda moyo Wamng'ono akukumana ndi vuto laling'ono, amayi a TikTok akufotokoza ndi mawu apakompyuta, Kumverera kwakukulu m'thupi laling'ono kumatha kukhala kovuta kwa aliyense… titha kupeza mayankho limodzi.
Amapitiriza kuthandiza mwana wake wamng'ono kuti athetse maganizo ake. Choyamba, amamutsogolera popuma. Atatha kupuma pang'ono, akumamuuza kuti agwedeze, ndipo wamng'onoyo akugwedeza manja ndi manja ake mwachidule.
Akadekha, amapitiriza kufotokoza, nthaŵi zonse ndimati ‘makutu omvetsera’ ndipo tonsefe timaloza makutu athu. Mwanjira imeneyo amadziwa kuti ali ndi chidwi changa chonse ndipo ndili ndi chake.
Mayi woleza mtimayo amamufunsa mwana wake wamng’ono chimene ankafuna, ndipo modekha akufotokoza kuti akufuna chokhwasula-khwasula. Amayi akuvomera mosangalala, zomwe zikukondweretsa kwambiri mwana wawo yemwe tsopano wakhala wodekha.
Timasangalala kwambiri tikatha kudziwa chomwe vuto linali kukonza, akumaliza.
'Wow, izi ndizodabwitsa ...'
TikTokers adalumphira m'mawuwo kuti afotokoze momwe amakondera komanso kuyamikira momwe amayiwa amachitira ndi kukwiya kwa mwana wawo.
Ndikulira podziwa kuti mwana uyu adzakula bwino ndikukhala ndi luso lotha kuthana ndi mavuto komanso kuti athe kuthana ndi maganizo ake, wogwiritsa ntchito wina adanena.
Wow izi ndizodabwitsa. Chikhulupiriro chimene ali nacho mwa wina ndi mzake chimafikadi apa. Kulera ana ndikugwira ntchito limodzi, wogwiritsa ntchito wina adalemba.
Ena a TikTokers adanenanso kuti akufuna akadaleredwa chimodzimodzi.
Ndikanakonda ndikanakhala ndi izi m’malo moti ‘SIYANI KULIRA KAPENA NDIKUPATSANI CHINTHU CHOKULIRA!’ wogwiritsa ntchito wina adagawana.
*akulira muubwana wapoizoni*, wogwiritsa ntchito wina adalemba mwachidule.
Malinga ndi ChildMind.org, kuphunzitsa ana kuzindikira ndikuwongolera momwe akumvera ndikofunikira.
Ana ena amachita zinthu chifukwa amavutika kulamulira maganizo awo. Ili ndi vuto lofala kwa ana ang'onoang'ono omwe sanayambebe kukwanitsa kuthana ndi malingaliro akuluakulu m'njira yolimbikitsa, Child Mind Institute akufotokoza.
Kutenga nthawi kuti muzindikire ndikulemba malingaliro kumathandiza ana kuti ayambe kumvetsera momwe akumvera. Izi ndizofunikira chifukwa kulabadira kukhudzidwa kwathu ndi gawo loyamba lophunzirira momwe tingawasamalire, iwo pitilizani .
Ndi makolo ngati @ wopanda moyo kuphunzitsa ana awo momwe angayendetsere ndikuwongolera malingaliro awo, tsogolo la anthu likuwoneka lathanzi, losangalala, komanso lokonzedwa bwino!
Mu The Know tsopano ikupezeka pa Apple News - titsatireni pano !
Ngati mudasangalala nayo nkhaniyi, onani mwana wozembera uyu yemwe amalira bodza kuti abambo akhale kunyumba!
