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Ngati muli pano, izi zikusonyeza kuti simukudziwa zomwe mwamuna wanu akufuna pachibwenzi. Chabwino, 'zolinga zaubwenzi zomwe mwamuna wanu akufuna pachibwenzi' ndizokhudza zokhumba za munthu wanu kuchokera pachibwenzi.
Nthawi zambiri, timaganiza kuti chikondi ndizomwe munthu amakhumba pachibwenzi. Koma kunena zowona pali zinthu zambiri zofunika kupatula chikondi chomwe chili pachibwenzi. Mwamuna aliyense amalakalaka izi ndipo ngati simukuzipereka muubwenzi, ndiye kuti ubalewo utha.
Kodi Mkazi Amafuna Chiyani Kwa Mwamuna?
Mtima umafuna nyumba, mwamuna amafuna chibwenzi, mkazi amafunika wokondedwa, ubale umasowa okwatirana ndikukwaniritsa onse awiriwa kuti alowe muubwenzi ndikukwaniritsa zofunikira zonse. Chinthu chokhudza chibwenzi ndi momwe mumachitira ndikuchitiramo. Ngati ndinu amene mukuyesetsa koma mukuwona kuti mwamuna wanu alibe chimwemwe muubwenzi, ndiye kuti muyenera kudziwa za zolinga zaubwenzi zomwe munthu amafuna muubwenzi.
Zolinga Zaubwenzi Kodi Munthu Wanu Amafuna Chiyani Mu Ubalewo?
1. Mgwirizano Osati Umwini
Mwamuna samangofuna chibwenzi chifukwa cha izi, amafuna mnzake woti akhale naye. Anthu awiri akakhala pachibwenzi, amakhala othandizana, amamverana wina ndi mzake ndikuyamikira malingaliro a wina ndi mnzake, makamaka zikalemera pazinthu zazikulu pamoyo. Mabwenzi amayamba kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake osagwetsana pansi.
Mu mgwirizano, mwamuna ndi mkazi omwe akukhudzidwa akuyenera kukumbukira kuti munthu m'modzi sayenera kupereka pomwe mnzake akuchita zonse chifukwa ndiubwenzi wogwirizana. Izi zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito pachilichonse kuchokera pakupanga nthawi yocheza limodzi kugawana ntchito zapakhomo mukakhala limodzi ndi mnzanu. Mwamuna nthawi zonse amalakalaka ubale wamtunduwu pomwe amamuwona mkazi wake ngati mnzake pamoyo wake wonse.
2. Kulankhulana
Mwamuna wanu akufuna kupanga ubale ndi inu pomwe nonse mumalankhulana za chilichonse mwatsatanetsatane. Chikondi chomwe chimayenda kudzera kulumikizana chimamupangitsa kukhala ndi chidwi chochulukirapo. Kulankhulana milatho mipata yambiri ndipo mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse amayesetsa kukhala pafupi nanu mothandizidwa ndi kulumikizana. Kulankhulana kwabwino kumalumikiza kukhwima m'maganizo kwa awiriwo muubwenzi. Kuti mwamuna wanu akhale osangalala mu chibwenzi, muyenera kulankhulana nthawi zonse. Ndikupambana kwa ubale wanu.
3. Kukula Mwauzimu
Mwamuna aliyense amafuna mkazi wokhwima monga mnzake. Palibe amene amafuna mtsikana wosakhwima m'maganizo yemwe angangowonjezera kukondana m'banjamo. Kumvetsetsa kuyenera kukhala koyenera kotero kuti pankhani zina, mtsikanayo amadziwa zoyenera kuchita m'malo mongokhala ndi kuchita zosakhwima. Kukula msinkhu kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi pachibwenzi ndikofunikira kwambiri. Ngati mukufuna kuti mwamuna wanu akhale wosangalala, ndiye muyenera kukhala okhwima mwamalingaliro.
4. Chitetezo Chokhala Pamodzi
Amuna onse omwe ali pachibwenzi amafuna kutsimikiza za chibwenzicho. Chitetezo cha umodzi chimakhala chofunikira kwambiri kwa iye. Kumva kukhala otetezeka mu chibwenzi nthawi zonse kumakhala kofunikira kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi yemwe akukhudzidwa. Kukhala ndi bwenzi lodalirika komanso lowona mtima kumathandiza abambo kukhala omasuka m'banjamo. Anyamata samasiyana ndi atsikana pankhani yofuna chitetezo muubwenzi ndipo nthawi zonse amapempha kwa mkazi wawo.
5. Kondani Njira Yanu
Aliyense amakonda kukondana ndi mnzake. Ngati simukukondana ndi wokondedwa wanu, ndiye kuti mwamuna wanu akhoza kulakalaka ndipo angakhale osasangalala kwanthawi yayitali. Ndikwabwino kukhala wachikondi kuposa kutaya mamuna wako. Mwamuna aliyense amafuna mkazi yemwe amamverera kuti akhoza kukhala pachibwenzi poyera ndipo atha kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino yolumikizana ndi chibwenzi chawocho. Ubale nthawi zambiri umawotchedwa pansi chifukwa cha kukondana kochepa, zomwe zimayambitsa mikangano yambiri komanso zosokoneza.
6. Kukondana Kwathupi
Munthu aliyense amafuna. Amuna ndi akazi onse amafuna kukhala athupi. Mwamuna aliyense amafuna mkazi yemwe amatha kukhala womasuka paubwenzi wawo ndi iwo komanso ubale wawo ndipo amatha kusangalala naye. Ngakhale kuti amayi amalumikizana bwino kudzera munjira yolumikizirana, amuna amadziwika bwino kuti amalumikizana bwino ndi kukhala athanzi. Kukhala paubwenzi ndi gawo lofunikira kwambiri paubwenzi uliwonse.
Izi ndizofunikira 6 zofunika kwambiri za abambo pachibwenzi. Amakhumba zofuna zakezi kuti zikwaniritsidwe ndipo ngati mukukonzekera kukwaniritsa zosowa za abambo anu, ndibwino kuti muyambe ndi izi ndikuwona momwe ubale wanu umakulira mpaka kukhala munda wachikondi.
Ngati mumakonda kuwerenga nkhaniyi, chonde perekani ndemanga zanu pansipa pagawo la ndemanga. Musaiwale kugawana nawo pazanema.
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