Kaya mwafika pachimake chachikulu, mwadutsa movutikira kapena mukungofuna chifukwa chochitira phwando ndi anzanu apamtima, mfundo yolumbiranso ndikukondwerera ukwati wanu. Ndipo mosiyana ndi nthawi yoyamba (pamene Azakhali a Karen akufunafuna za menyu adakuyendetsani pakhoma), nthawi ino ndikukumbukira ubale wanu pamalo otsika komanso opanda nkhawa. Apa ndi momwe mungakonzekere kukonzanso lumbiro.
Zogwirizana: Kodi Iye ndi Mmodzi? Sindikudziwa Ngati Tikwatirane Kapena Tisiye
Kodi kukonzanso kwa lumbiro ndi chiyani?
Mfundo yake ndi yakuti: Kulumbiranso ndi pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi amalumbiranso zimene analumbirira wina ndi mnzake atangokwatirana kumene. Ndi njira yosangalalira chikondi chawo ndikuvomereza momwe zasinthira pakapita nthawi. Koma chinthu chimodzi ndi kukonzanso kwa lumbiro ayi ? Ukwati wachiwiri. Yesetsani kuchita chikondwerero chodekha komanso chapamtima (i.e., palibe mndandanda wa alendo 150).
N'chifukwa chiyani kusintha kwa lumbiro?
Lingaliro la kukonzanso lumbiro ndi kukumbukira ukwati wanu, zomwe okwatirana angasankhe kuchita nthawi iliyonse. Koma pali zochitika zina zapadera zomwe zingalimbikitse awiri kunena kuti ndichitanso, monga ...
- Ndichikondwerero chaukwati wopambana (hey, zaka 20 pamodzi sizochita zazing'ono).
- Mudalankhula nthawi yoyamba yomwe mudalumbira ndipo tsopano mukufuna kusangalala ndi anzanu komanso abale.
- Mwagonjetsa chopinga chachikulu palimodzi ndipo mukufuna kukumbukira mwambowu.
- Munadutsa munjira yovuta muubwenzi wanu ndikudutsa mbali ina yamphamvu kuposa kale.
14 Zochita ndi Zosachita za Kukonzanso Lonjezo
Chitani: Sankhani malo omwe ali ndi tanthauzo kwa inu. Kaya ndi tchalitchi, bwalo lanu kapena malo odyera omwe mumakonda, sankhani dera lomwe lili ndi tanthauzo lachikondi paubwenzi wanu.
Osatero: Valani diresi laukwati. Chikumbutso: Uwu siukwati wachiwiri. Zomwe sizikutanthauza kuti simungathe kuvala chovala choyera kapena chovala chokongola ngati mukufuna, koma palibe chifukwa chodutsa muyeso wa kugula zovala ndi apongozi anu, ndikugwetsa chuma chaching'ono pa chinachake chimene inu. Ndingovala kamodzi ndikupita kuzinthu zingapo.
Osatero: Khalani ndi phwando la mkwatibwi. Khalani omasuka kufunsa mdzakazi wanu wakale waulemu kapena mwamuna wabwino kuti ayime nanu pazifukwa zachisoni, koma kupempha kuti anzanu agule madiresi ofananira ndikukonzekera phwando la bachelorette sichabwino.
Chitani: Pezani maluwa. Ngakhale kuti maluwa okongola sikofunikira kuti alumbirenso lumbiro, ndizovomerezeka kukhala ndi kagulu kakang'ono pamwambo ngati mukufuna (osawononga madola mazana ambiri pamaluwa okongola).
Osatero: Yembekezerani mphatso. Mphatso zaukwati zimaperekedwa kuti zithandize okwatirana kukhazikika limodzi m’moyo wawo watsopano. Polumbiranso lumbiro, awiriwa apanga kale kusinthaku, kotero kuti mphatso si gawo la equation.
Chitani: Kusinthana malumbiro. Ndilo mtundu wa mfundo yolumbira, koma sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kunena zinazake (pokhapokha ngati mukufuna, ndithudi). Mutha kusinthana malonjezo omwewo omwe mudakhala nawo pa tsiku laukwati wanu kapena kukhala ndi china chatsopano kuti muwonetse anthu osiyanasiyana omwe muli pano. Sankhani ulendo wanu.
Osatero: Itanani aliyense amene mukumudziwa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti aliyense amene simunalankhule naye chaka chatha kapena anzanu aliwonse omwe samatengedwa kuti ndi abwenzi. Chepetsani mndandanda wa alendo.
Chitani: Khalani ndi phwando. Iyi ndi gawo losangalatsa! Koma kachiwiri, sikuyenera kukhala chilichonse chovuta kapena chovuta kukonzekera. Phwando la chakudya chamadzulo kunyumba kapena ma cocktails pa bar yomwe mumakonda ndi malingaliro abwino. Yang'anani pa kusakanikirana ndi abwenzi, ndipo khalani omasuka kuwonjezera zina zosangalatsa monga kusewera chiwonetsero chazithunzi cha zithunzi kapena kuwonetsa zithunzi zina zachimbale chanu chaukwati.
Osatero: Pezani keke yaukwati yamitu isanu ndi iwiri. Zakudya zotsekemera (inde, ngakhale keke) ndizoyenera kukonzanso lumbiro, koma mbambande yoyera ya buttercream yokhala ndi mkwati ndi mkwatibwi pamwamba ndiyosafunikira.
Chitani: Kusinthana mphete. Izi zitha kukhala mphete zanu zakale zaukwati kapena zatsopano. Palibe kukakamizidwa.
Osatero: Pangani magule a makolo a abambo ndi amayi ndi mwana wamwamuna. M'malo mwake, itanani alendo anu onse kuti abwere nanu pabwalo lovina.
Chitani: Funsani mnzanu kapena wachibale kuti azitsogolera. Popeza kuti mwambo wokonzanso malumbiro ulibe tanthauzo lililonse lalamulo, aliyense akhoza kukhala woyang’anira, kaya ndi mtumiki wanu, bwenzi lanu, wachibale kapena mmodzi wa ana anu.
Osatero: Makolo akuperekezeni kutsika. Mabanja ambiri amasankha kuyenda pansi limodzi kapena kuyenda kuchokera mbali zosiyana za chipinda ndikumakumana pakati, koma mukhoza kukhala ndi mmodzi mwa ana anu kuti akuperekezeni.
Chitani: Sangalalani popanda kukakamizidwa kulikonse. Ngati m'masabata musanayambe kukonzanso lumbiro lanu mukupeza kuti mukuvutikira pamndandanda wazosewerera kapena zomwe muyenera kuvala, ndiye kuti mukulakwitsa. Pumulani, sangalalani ndi chochitikacho ndikuyamikira ubale wanu.
