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Kwa atsikana ambiri am'badwo wathu, chikondi ndi kukondana ndi zinthu zomwe zimayendera limodzi. Tonsefe timasangalala kholo lathu likamakhala lachikondi ndipo likutiwonetsa chikondi. M'malo mwake, atsikana ena amapita mwezi pomwe chibwenzi chawo chimachita nawo pagulu kuwonetsa chikondi.
Zowonadi, ichi ndi chinthu chimodzi chomwe chingapangitse mtsikana aliyense kumverera ngati mwana wamkazi. Kaya chibwenzi ndichinthu chomwe mukufuna m'misewu kapena mungakonde kukhala nacho mkati mwa makoma anayi achipinda, chowonadi ndichakuti pafupifupi azimayi onse amakonda kukhala ndi chibwenzi pang'ono m'miyoyo yawo yachikondi.
Zachisoni kwa ife, si amuna onse omwe ali ngati 'kalonga wokongola'. Pali zibwenzi zomwe zimakhala zothandiza kwambiri ndipo sizimakhulupirira lingaliro lachikondi konse. Pali ena omwe amazizira kwambiri kuti angaganizire zachikondi. Amayi omwe amakhala pachibwenzi ndi amuna oterewa nthawi zambiri amawoneka osasangalala ndikusowa kwachikondi pamoyo wawo.
Kuonjezera pamavuto awo, ngakhale masiku ano, anthu amavomereza kuti ndiamuna waubwenzi omwe ayenera kuyambitsa zachikondi zonse zomwe zimalowa.
Ngati ndinu m'modzi mwa amayi omwe amakhumudwa chifukwa chakuti chibwenzi chake sichikukondana, iyi ndi nkhani yanu. Apa tikambirana njira khumi zomwe mungatenge kuti mupange chibwenzi chanu kuti chikhale chokondana.
1. Muuzeni Zomwe Mukufuna
Mwayi wake ndikuti bwenzi lanu sakuzindikira kuti sakukondana. Chifukwa chake chinthu choyamba chomwe muyenera kuchita kuti muthane ndi vutoli ndikumuuza kuti vutolo lilipo. Akazindikira kuti izi zikutanthauza chiyani kwa inu, amalemba ndi kuyesa kudzikonza. Izi zipulumutsa ubale wanu ndikupatseni zomwe mukufuna chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuti musamachite mantha kuyankhula zakukhosi kwanu.
2. Valani Bwino
Ngakhale mungaone kuti bwenzi lanu silikukondananso, chifukwa cha zomwezo mwina ndikuti inunso simukhala wokongola pano. Onetsetsani kuti mumagwiritsa ntchito ukhondo wanu ndikukonzekera bwino. Mwanjira imeneyi bwenzi lanu lidzakopeka nanu kwambiri ndipo izi mwachidziwikire zidzamupangitsa kukhala wokonda kwambiri.
3. Osamugwedeza
Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zikwizikwi zomwe chibwenzi chanu sichikukondani nanu. Kungakhale zokumana nazo zakale zaubwenzi kapena chifukwa china chomwe chimamupangitsa kuti asasangalatse chikondi chake. Kukhala chibwenzi chovuta kapena kumangokhalira kumunena za zomwezo kumangopangitsa kuti ayambe kukuda, ndipo sichinthu chomwe sukufuna.
4. Osamufanizira Ndi Amuna Ena Achikondi
Mgwirizano wamwamuna ndichinthu chovuta kwambiri ndipo ngati bwenzi ndiye udindo wanu kuonetsetsa kuti zomwezo sizimalephereka. Poyerekeza chibwenzi chako ndi amuna ena achikondi, mukumupweteketsa mtima. Izi sizingamupange kukhala wachikondi. M'malo mwake, izi zitha kumpangitsa kukhala wosakondana kwambiri kuposa momwe alili pano. Choyipa chachikulu chomwe mungachite ndikufanizira kukondana kwa chibwenzi chanu ndi kwa abwana anu. Onetsetsani kuti simukuchita izi.
5. Kugonjera Pa Zochitika Zokondana
Chibwenzi chanu chingafune kuti muzichita zinthu zomwe inu eni simukonda kwenikweni. Ngakhale izi zimachokera pamasewero omwe akuyembekeza kuti muzicheza naye mukamasewera masewera apakanema, onetsetsani kuti simukana chilichonse. Mwanjira imeneyi azikuthokozani chifukwa cha zonse zomwe mwachita ndipo nthawi ina mukadzamupempha kuti mukakhale naye pachibwenzi, adzasangalala kutsatira.
6. Muziyamikira
Mukangomuuza kuti mukufuna kuti akhale wokonda kwambiri, ndiye kuti ayesanso kuchita zomwezo. Onetsetsani kuti mumayamikiranso chimodzimodzi. Simungayembekezere kuti atsegule tsamba latsopano usiku umodzi. Pokhala oleza mtima kwa iye ndikuyamikira zomwe mwana akupangitsani kuti mupange ubale wolimba ndikukhala ndi chikondi chonse chomwe mumafuna.
7. Pitani Pambuyo pa Chikondi cha Cliché
Ndikofunikira kuti muzindikire kuti kukondana kumatha kupezeka m'malo osayembekezeka. Chifukwa chake ganizirani kuti kukondana kumatha kuchitika pakudya kandulo kandulo. M'malo mwake yesetsani kupita kuzinthu zomwe nonse mumazikonda. Ngati ntchitoyi ndiyosangalatsa, kukondana kumatha.
8. Yambitsani Kukondana
Ngati mukufunitsitsadi kukondana ndipo simunakwanitse kupeza chipinda chija kuchokera kwa bwenzi lanu, musazengereze kufotokoza zomwezo pachibwenzi chanu. Patapita masiku omwe munthu yekhayo amatha kuchita izi. M'masiku ano azikhalidwe zakuyanjana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, palibe chifukwa choti musamangopitilira chibwenzi chanu.
9. Muuzeni Momwe Akuthandizirani kwa Inu
Nthawi zambiri timatha kukonda munthu koma osamuwuza chimodzimodzi. Timazitenga mopepuka kuti winayo adziwe. Koma kumbukirani kuti chibwenzi chanu sichitha kuwerenga malingaliro. Mukamuuza kuti mumamukonda, mukumulimbikitsa kuti amasuke kukufotokozerani, zomwe zingamupangitse kuti azikondana kwambiri. Njira ina yomuuzira zakufunika kwake m'moyo wanu ndiyo kumusambitsa ndi mphatso.
10. Pali Moyo Wambiri Kuposa Kukondana
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti mumveke izi momveka bwino pamutu panu. Chifukwa choti sali wokondana sizitanthauza kuti amakukondani pang'ono. Sikuti aliyense ali ndi njira yofanana yosonyezera chikondi. Ngati sakukondana kwambiri, mutha kuganizira zosiya kuyesayesa kuti musinthe koma m'malo mwake mumulandire momwe alili. Mwanjira imeneyi mudzapeza kuti mukusangalala kwambiri ndi chikondi.