Chinsinsi cha kugona bwino usiku? Musaganize za njovu za pinki . Ayi, uku sikotsatsa kwatsopano Dumbo kanema. Ndi chinyengo chomwe chingathetse kusowa tulo kwanu kamodzi kokha.
Ndiye Kodi Cholinga Chodabwitsa N'chiyani?
Zimakhala kuti chinsinsi chokhala ndi chidwi chotseka maso chikhoza kukhala mu reverse psychology. Malinga ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Arash Emamzadeh , zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti mugone ndi yesetsani momwe mungathere kukhala maso .
Ndiye Kodi Paradoxical Intention Imagwira Ntchito Motani?
Momwe zimagwirira ntchito ndikuti m'malo movutikira kuyesera kudzikakamiza kugona ('Nditha kupeza osachepera maola sikisi ... maola asanu ... ndikagona tsopano nditha kupeza osachepera maola anayi'), mumayesa kukhala. dzuka momwe mungathere, Emamzadeh amalemba mu Psychology Today . Zolinga zododometsa sizimatsutsana ndi cholinga chodetsa nkhawa (choyesa kudzikakamiza kugona), koma chimawongolera mbali ina (yofuna kudzikakamiza kukhala maso).
Okayikira? Ganizirani za nthawi yomwe mumayesa kukhala mochedwa kuti mulembe mayeso kapena kumaliza pepala pasukulu yasekondale, kapena momwe mumamvera mukuyesera kukhala otseguka pokambirana ndi mnzanu waku koleji. N’kutheka kuti tulo tatsala pang’ono kukutsekerani ndipo simunathe kulimbana nalo. Munali kudzikakamiza kukhala maso, alemba Emamzadeh, koma pamapeto pake kuloledwa kugona kuchitika.
Choncho nthawi ina pamene maganizo anu ayamba kuthamanga pakati pa usiku, musavutike kwambiri kuti mugone. M’malo mwake, gonani pabedi ndi cholinga chilichonse chongokhala. Koma kutanthauza, akuchenjeza Emamzadeh. Simunganamizire, kapena thupi lidzadziwa. Ndiye, ngati mukuona kuti kugona kukubwera, mukhoza kugona.
Tsopano ndiye mwamtheradi brillia…ghgmgh. Chani? Tanyamuka. Timalumbira.
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