Mayi wobadwayo anakhumudwa kwambiri ndi mkazi wake C-gawo pemphani kuti amuthamangitse - ndipo tsopano nkhani yake ikupita ku Reddit.
Zatumizidwa ku subreddit r/TwoXChromosomes , nkhaniyo yavomerezedwa nthawi zoposa 34,000 ndipo yapeza mayankho pafupifupi 3,000.
Wogwiritsa ntchito Reddit wopemphapempha anafotokoza m'makalata ake: Poyamba ndinkaganiza kuti ndi 'nthabwala' koma nditaona kuti anali wovuta, ndinakhumudwa kwambiri (osati kuti 'nthabwala' ngati ingakhale yabwino).
Ndine wodabwa chifukwa nthawi zonse amadziwonetsera kuti ndi mkazi, choncho ndemanga ngati imeneyo inali yodabwitsa kwambiri. Koma adanenetsa kuti chomaliza chomwe akufuna ndi chakuti moyo wathu wakugonana uwonongeke chifukwa sindidzakhala wothina monga momwe ndiriri pano ndipo anali ndi f****** b**** yoti aphunzitse. kuti 'kuti ubalewu ugwire ntchito, uyenera kudzimana.'
Ndinamuuza kuti sizingachitike ndipo anati ndikudzikonda ndipo uwu ndi umboni kuti sindingathe kuika zosowa zake pamwamba pa zanga. Ndine wopeza chakudya ndipo ndikumuthandiza pamene akupanga bizinesi yake ya jarrarium, chifukwa amakana kupeza ntchito yolipira ndipo akufuna kuchita zomwe akufuna. Ndimamvetsetsa izi ndipo ndimayesetsa kuthandizira.
Miyezi ingapo yapitayo anapempha kuti azikakhala nane chifukwa makolo ake ‘anali kumusisita. Pamene ndimagwira ntchito maola 10, saphika, kuyeretsa, kuyendetsa zinthu, palibe. Ndimalipira mabilu athu, lendi, chakudya, gasi wagalimoto yake ndi zinthu zake za jarrarium.
Pepani koma ngati uku sikuli tanthauzo lenileni la bwenzi lothandizira sindikudziwa kuti ndi chiyani. Kotero ndemanga imeneyo inali udzu wotsiriza. Chomwe chinali chodetsa nkhaŵa chake chachikulu ndi phiri loti afe chinali chodabwitsa.
Choncho ndinamuthamangitsa. Ndimamukonda, akhoza kukhala tizilombo toyambitsa matenda, monga momwe mlongo wanga amanenera, koma ndimaganiza kuti ndikuthandiza wina kukwaniritsa chilakolako chawo. Sindikuganiza kuti amandipezerapo mwayi ndi njiru, nthawi zonse anali mwana wa momma ndipo kukhala ndi ine kunali kosavuta kwa iye chifukwa, monga kwa amayi ake, kuno samayenera kuchapa, kuphika, kulipira ngongole. , ndi zina.
Koma ndatha. Ndiyenera kuchita bwino. Ndiyenera kukhala ndi mnzanga weniweni amene amandithandiza ndipo [amene] chodetsa nkhaŵa chachikulu sichiri ‘kulimba mtima’ kwa maliseche anga, osati mwamuna wamkulu woti ndizisamalire. Ndimamukondabe koma ndithana nazo. Sindikufunanso kuti akhale mnzanga.
Sinthani - Popeza izi zikupanga chidwi kwambiri, jarrarium ( r/Jarrariums ) ndi kanyumba kakang'ono kakang'ono kamene kamakhala kamene kamakhala kamene kamakhala kamene kamakhala kamene kamathandiza kuti zinthu zachilengedwe ziziyenda bwino (mosiyana ndi mkazi wanga wakale) womangidwa mumtsuko waung'ono ngati mtsuko kapena mbale ya nsomba.
'Chonde musamayike doofus pa satifiketi yobadwa ...'
Zikwi ndi masauzande a ogwiritsa ntchito a Reddit adalumphira kuti agawane zomwe adachita ndi nkhani ya OP.
Gawo la C ndi opaleshoni yaikulu . Amakufunsani kuti muchite maopaleshoni akulu, osasokoneza omwe ali ndi zovuta zodziwika bwino za thanzi ndi chitetezo chifukwa akuwopa kuti kusatero kungapangitse kuti kugonana kusakhale kwabwino. Ndinagonekedwa m'chipatala pambuyo pa gawo ladzidzidzi la C chifukwa cha matenda ndi kulephera kwa aimpso, wogwiritsa ntchito wina adayankhapo.
Munthu uyu si bwenzi la nthawi yaitali. Akuyang'ana zomwe angatuluke muubwenzi pakali pano. Kumanga moyo pamodzi kumatanthauza kuvomereza mfundo yakuti nonse mudzasintha, m'maganizo, mwauzimu ndi mwakuthupi. Ngati amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi momwe thupi limakhalira momwe liriri ndiye kuti akwatire kuwala kwa thupi, wolemba wina analemba.
Ndili ndi mwana wanga woyamba, mwamuna wanga panthawiyo adafunsa OB wanga wamwamuna kuti 'andisokerenso' pamene amandisokera pambuyo pobereka. Mnyamatayo adachitadi ndipo pambuyo pogonana kunali kowawa kwambiri kwa ine mpaka nditabereka mwana wanga wachiwiri. Inde ndinang'amba kachiwiri pamene ndinali wachiwiri koma ndikuthokoza wanga wamkazi OB anandisoka bwino nthawi imeneyo. Chifukwa chake, okondwa kuti mwaganiza kuti muli bwino popanda munthu ameneyo, adagawana wogwiritsa ntchito wina.
Chonde ganizirani kusayika doofus pa satifiketi yobadwa. Ngati ndinu womulera, ndipo amalandira ufulu wolera pamodzi, mungafunikire kumulipira ndalama zolipirira mwana. Mutha kuganiza kuti sakufuna kutenga nawo mbali ndipo vuto ndi chiyani, koma ngati atachita bwino mungafunike kumulipira (ndipo Amayi ake amangolera mwana wanu ikafika nthawi yake), atha kutero, wogwiritsa ntchito wina. adayankha.
…Mwanayo adzakhala ndi chiyambukiro chachikulu pa moyo wawo wogonana kuposa 'kulimba' kwa nyini yake, adatero wogwiritsa ntchito wina.
Umo si momwe nyini ndi kubereka zimagwirira ntchito. Ngati ali mbuli ndiye sayenera kugonana. ndulu kunena kuti kwa mkazi wonyamula [mwana] wake wapitirira wotumbululuka. Muchotseni panyumba panu ndipo musawonongenso ndalama kwa iye, adalemba wina wogwiritsa ntchito.
Ngakhale ogwiritsa ntchito ambiri adadabwitsidwa ndi mnzake wodzikonda wa OP, ambiri adalimbikitsidwa kudziwa kuti adasiyana naye ngakhale ali ndi malingaliro otsalira omwe angakhale nawo.
Kupatula apo, pankhani yobweretsa mwana m'dziko lino, ndikofunikira kutero ndi chithandizo champhamvu, chathanzi - ndikuchotsa zoopsa zilizonse, zodzikonda.
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